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Archived questions from: 25 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Does my bf still want me or is he just dragging me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - i am hopeing that i will get an honest answer from what i am going to write, and i hope i can get some help and advice, I recently been going out with my boyfriend hes 23 and im 19 and i would say i feel he could be the man that i would end up with,...

Opposites attract but can they stay together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - Okay idk what to do. my gf and i have been together 8 months now. Neither of us have ever been in a relationship before and we are both very serious. My problem is i love her very much, but our personalitys are just different. she is a person who ...

He doesn't believe, I believe him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - i need help with my bf the other day he told me something and i asked if he was lieing but i didnt mean it intentionally,he went made saying why dont you ever believe me this happened yesterday and today he's been sending me horrible messages...

I slept with another guy out of revenge and now I'm feeling guilty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend officially for nearly 4 months and unofficially 2 months before we got together for good, I'm 18 and he's 19. I know that doesn't sound like the longest relationship but I seriously love him to pieces, I've never met ...

Money is missing and all the signs point to my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I recently stayed over at my new boyfriends house. The next day while shopping i discovered my bank card was missing. I had the bank close the card immediately. Later that day I discovered that the bank account was emptied. and also some cash was ...

How can I stop this silly infatuation with a guy who likes to touch me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles, I'm at the end of my tether and need some help please! I know you'll say you must be mad, and I do know I must but I just can't help myself. I have had a guy at work chasing me for ages, I know he likes looking at the att...

I'm putting in 150% effort, she puts in about 10%

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - Hi all, i feel like i am at high school again'. She tells me she doesnt know what she wants and that i am to full on. She wants to start over be friends and go through the dating thing again. That is great! only problem is. She is to busy with ...

Does he just like looking at these other girls because he isn't interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - This is what my stories goes: (sorry that its long) I've been with my bf for more than 5 years. I used to be quite chubby but I've been trying all sorts of way to lose weight like pills and creams. However, there are many occasions where ...

How do I find out what is going on and get the money he owes me?

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25 November 2010 (F) - I will try to keep this short and sweet! My ex, the father of my 7 month old, was giving me £250 a month in child support a month. He was made redundant at the end of October but his last pay packet was yesterday and was a full pay packet. He p...

Why is he all of a sudden distancing himself after making this official?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - So i've been talking to this for about 5 months now, he goes to college in a different state so it's more of a long distance relationship but he comes up and visits a lot. He's asked me to be his girlfriend plenty of times over text and every time ...

Are we on a break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - Said she needs space, does that mean we are on a break? Do I still text her and say happy thanksgiving?...

Opinions on ex's spending holidays together "for the kids"?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - What are some opinions ex's spending holidays together "for the kids". Does anyone else think it may send the wrong message to the kids that there is hope of a reconciliation between their parents? Especially when one of them has to leave their new ...

I'm freaking out about what to get him for Christmas! I really want him to like it....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend, I'm 15 and he's 16, have been going out only for a month, but it will be our 2 month in a few days. And our 3 month is going to be a few days after Christmas. We're already talking about what gifts to get each other. He's just ...

What can I do to get my mates back without looking weak?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - A while ago my life was going great, people trusted me. Now my life has fallen apart, iv lost 4 mates! Close ones. The first 2 i lost because a girl made up some stuff i said about them, which i didnt say! Then one of them was alright with me, but ...

He wont take his medication and it is ruining our relationship! Should I leave him for good?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has bipolar disorder which makes him have over the top up and down moods. He refuses to take the tablets he should be taking. He loses his temper over the slightest thing. We get into huge arguments in which he throws stuff and blames ...

How do I get away from my abusive mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 years old and live with both my parents and my sister. For the last, approximately, five years I've been subjected to frequent rages from my mother. In the majority of these she has been very violent towards me, often bruising my face ...

How do you break up with someone you care about?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I feel like now is the time to end my relationship with my boyfriend of 4 years. I have had doubts for quite some time now, I feel unhappy, I feel like I've outgrown him and I'm just not that interested anymore. However, I do really care about him ...

Jealousy has taken over me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - so here goes... i came to dr to get back surgery and i be staying at my uncle house with his family.The 3 day i was here i meet one on my cousin's friends,that night it was me, my two cousins and her,we was playing a game and for some weird reson ...

Why does she want space? It is so hard to wait for her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - So me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half now, we fell on hard times where i was involved in an accident and people died but she stuck right there. i lost my drivers license and depended on her a lot. so i went to deer camp on a sat but ...

Can't get out of an intensely committed relationship......

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years, and lately things haven't been going well. She tends to control me and I tend to resist by just dropping out which only makes things worse. Out of subconscious spite I'll do things that I know ...

Is it appropriate for my boyfriend to be saying these things? Or is he crazy to want to come and meet me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - no body replied to my question so i have to post it again.plzzzzz reply. Im in a ldr committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months.i am going to attend one uncle's son wedding to a place where my bf also lives.but i am going with my parents,...

How do I stop hurting the women I sleep with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - The problem is I have a rather large penis over 9 inch and I hurt most women when having sex. Is there anything I can do to stop hurting the women I sleep with? ...

Why do so many girls text my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Why do so many girls text my boyfriend and want to meet up with him? I hate it. ...

My husband tries to discipline me when I make a mistake!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I've been married for about 4 months now and I'm having a strange problem with my husband: he wants to walk all over me. he's into spanking in the bedroom which I like but he also tries to "discipline" me when I make a mistake. I tried to play along ...

Does he love me as much as he does his child?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Please help me understand. I'm 20 years old and i'm wondering about things in general to do with parent-child relationships. I read on here yesterday that its a diff kind of love and you often see on here parents write that their children are the...

Under his friend's influence my b/f has gotten back into his wild old days behavior again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - My bf in his younger days used to be involved in drugs and heavy drinking, smoking and major parties!! He basically lived by the motto, sex, drugs and rock n roll and eventually he got out of it and stopped as he got older. When I met him he didnt...

He wanted to have sex but said he didn't love me, now things are awkward with my friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Hey everyone.I wrote before and got some really good advice so I thought I'd try again. This concerns a guy who used to be my best friend. For over a year things started to change between us and I felt he was developing feelings. He would call and ...

Why does my sister in law hate me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - My sister in law hates me. I got pregnant with my now fiances baby after 4 months of being together, it was unplanned, but we decided to keep her and we're still happy together over 2 years later, our Daughter is now 15 months. When I got p...

I don't know what to do about boyfriends cheapness

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating a wonderful man for 10 months now and I can't imagine my life without him. My only issue is that due to the economy I am unemployed and struggling to support my son. My boyfriend flaunts his money around and buys himself ...

I Shut The Door and Now I Want to Re open It

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - About two years ago, I was talking to this girl and we would talk everyday for about 6 months. One day I received a text from her telling me she wanted more out of us and intitially I agreed, however after five days I thought it was wrong and told ...

What can I do about boyfriend not calling me or contacting me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I wrote here a few days ago about my boyfriend not calling or showing up when he said he would (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-been-24-hours-and-he-hasnt-called.html). So it's been a few days now and I still haven't heard from him. I don'...

Boyfriend and his father's relationship. Should I say anything or stay out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's father is in town for a visit and this is the first time I have met him. They have a complicated and unhappy history, which I admit I can't possibly know all of. My boyfriend is super-stressed, because his dad is fairly high ...

My girlfriend is amazing! Should I just accept her kindness and stop complaining?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - I do not know how I got so lucky as to snatch up my amazing and beautiful girlfriend; I would be lost in so many ways without her. I've had a thing for her for a while now but all throughout high school, she would be my friend and nothing more. Then ...

Has anyone experienced a date canceling twice, should I forget him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I went out on a first date with a guy I met a party and we hit it off. We exchanged numbers and talked and texted every night for weeks before going out on a date. The date went well...as well as first dates can go. And he asked me out again that ...

I love him but he is not treating me like I want to be treated, what do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - I am the mother to a beautiful 9 month old son who is my world. His father and I are together and we all live in the same house. I am currently pregnant again and have spotted the entire pregnancy so am on light bed rest and was told not to get ...

I am having a problem accepting her sexual past, please help me??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

25 November 2010 (M) - I got divorced ten years ago and thought my world had come to an end,however,after a year of trying to find a new life partner i met a fantastic woman who had also been divorced around the same time as me.To cut a long story short we have been ...