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Archived questions from: 21 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend likes to make me jealous to make himself feel better

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I am 22-years-old and I'm in a relatively new relationship with a guy. We are going on 4 months together, and we've already said "I love you" to each other and I really feel like it's true. My question is about his possesiveness. The other day I ...

I love her but she keeps going in and out of my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - hi every 1 ... i neeeeedd heeeelp in late 2005 (5) years ago i received a love note from the hottest girl in my school, i was 13 she apparently had a crush on me and wanted me as her boyfriend of course i accepted, (AND THATS WHEN I HAD MY FIRST LO...

Manager at my new job is causing trouble. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hello Cupids. Recently I've just got hired at a local walmart, and Ive been there about a month. Ive gotten really sick with the stomach flu and have called in today a day i know i wasnt working they called telling me Im a no show, I really w...

He uses me because he knows I like him. Is that abuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) - Would you class this as abuse? A guy who only seems to talk to you when he wants sex. Who pretends he cares and likes you then once you've had sex he says you have to leave early in the morning because he's busy. You text him and he ignores it th...

Girlfriend won't stop texting this guy, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3820 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Ok so I know I've been asking a lot of questions, but definitely this is something I MUST ask. My girlfriend keeps texting behind my back or in front of me while we go out. However, when I ask her to let me see who she's texting she'll never sho...

What do I do with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hi, ive been goin out with my boyfriend for almost 3 months now. I know it's not long compared to other relationships, but its the longest relationship ive been in. Im good friends with some of his friends, so i would be afraid if i dumped him i wud ...

We are living together but we are not together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - hi recently me and my partener of 18 months and which i have a 10 month old child too have gone on a break. the reason behind this i dont know but we have a counciling session tomorrow to try and help our relationship be rebuilt, however...

Why do I attract the kind of men that I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - So, I have never had a relationship with someone that I met IRL walking down the street, via a friend, etc. Every guy that I have dated, I have met online or through a dating service. I believed that this was because I am morbidly obese, and a lot ...

I feel abused by this woman

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - I work with my ex girlfriend. We went out and things were find but she didnt want anyone to know about the relationship at work and even lied to people that we were only friends not lovers. we went on holiday together and all the things that you do ...

Its the opportunity of a life time for him, but I just cant be happy for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - May seem far-fetched, but i do not have any reason to lie on here...I just need some honest, non-biased advice.. My boyfriend and I have been extremely happy together for a year and a half. We know that this is it, we have found who we want to b...

What do I do if another girl is in love with my guy?

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21 November 2010 (F) - What do I do if another girl is in love with my boyfriend? They first became friends through class, but I know she likes him and he knows it too. He said he has no feelings for her and only sees her in class, but she texts him constantly and I am ...

I lied, am I worth taking back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I was dating this boy for a while (a year) and it was long distance since he moved with his family, I lied to him about not being able to send him pictures because I gained about 4 pounds and even though it doesn't sound like a lot I didn't want him ...

She doesn't like to hear "I love you" Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - My girl friend doesn't like to hear me say i love her,why?...

Why does her past bug me so much!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5112 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Hi I have posted a few items now and I am sure a number of you will recognise which ones when I write on.... this is another post to see if I can tap into your wisdom again. My girlfriend and I get ever closer and also ever closer to having o...

I'm trying to support my b/f but he doesn't want me to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - what is wrong with my boyfriend? Ok i been with my boyfriend for one year and a few months he is a truck driver im 30 and he is 34 he lost his job the other day and he acts likes he hates me he has been drinking very heavily he stayed out two days ...

He treats me more like a guy friend than his girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hi. Recently i feel so sad and empty all the time. My boyfriend doesnt treat me right. He treat me more like his close guy friend rather than his girlfriend. He likes to compare me with his crush. Saying shes better than me and i suck. The reason h...

Boyfriend doesn't want to settle down with me but all my friends are doing it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been going out for 2 years, which is pretty much the same or more than all of my friends have been going out with theirs. They are all starting to move in together and thinking bout houses and the future and I'd like to do this too. ...

I lied to my boyfriend about where I was and my boyfriend seems different

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21 November 2010 (F) - i lied to my boyfriend yesterday dat i went to d market to get some jewelry. i actually went to a boutique to get a wrist. wn i got home he was alredy der waiting for me,he became furious cos i wasnt with d beads i said i went to get,i have ...

I feel like my boyfriend's dirty little secret

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Hoping someone can shed some light on the relationship situation i am in. I have been seeing this guy for 15mths now and although when the mood takes him he will say he loves me, i have never felt so unloved and insecure in my life. I am 35 and h...

Break up has left me unable to move on

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I am despairing of ever finding that special relationship. My last relationship ended at Christmas last year. I hadn't realised at the time that he was breaking up with me as he asked me what I thought about things so I presumed that he...

Communication is not great between us, how can I improve things?

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21 November 2010 (F) - Hi guys, Ive been with my boyfriend for 9 months, things have gone at a pretty slow pace which is ok with me as I came out a 4 yr relationship and got with him 3 months later. We have not been without our issues, not major ones but small niggly...

She's pregnant and its like talking to a stranger!

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21 November 2010 (M) - one night about 6months ago i was out with friends and i saw this gorgeous tall brunette and i fell for her big time. we had a great night together my friend hooked up with her friend. and we all had a party afterwords. we had a great night and i ...

He hacked my facebook!!!???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Dear cupid ,my boyfriend is very jealous and today he went to tha extream of hacking my facebook because he thought i was cheating.when he went on there he saw that i asked a male friend if theyd missed me and he fliiped out!!! he also saw that i ...

I don't understand his actions or his thinking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were on a break and just got back together. We went back and things have slowly gotten better progressing. The communication is good and he shows he really cares about me but something has changed. When I have spent the night in ...

I care for others but don't feel anything for myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) - i'm not sure where to start but i'm really optimistic about others and i love helping people out through any tough times they might have but i never feel anything for myself i think i'm ugly i'm always put down and picked on for i always find myself ...

How do I know if he's just not good for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating in our last year of high school and are both currently in our first year of college, and still together. He is my first serious relationship. We both have always wanted to move to the same place for school and ...

Dumb arguments turn into major fights!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together for 4 1/2 years. Lately we have been arguing alot about extremely dumb stuff. but when we get into these arguments and they turn into a really big deal. it even comes to the point where he tells me he doesnt ...

She said it was disgusting for a women to pay a man's bills but she let me pay for all of hers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

21 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, I am a 30 year old guy from London and I have come on here from some honest opinions on my relationship. Now this is quite a long thread but I promise it is very interesting and will be the cause for conversation with your friends and ...

HELP! I feel betrayed by my boyfriend! what do I now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend has betrayed me. He puts other people above me. He doesn't even open up to me anymore. He opens up to his friends. What's the point of having me around if he can't open up to me? Some of his friends are wonderful. I ...

Is it worth it trying to get him to talk?

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21 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't communicate well. He holds his feelings in, he plays the silent treatment game, he's a brat. For the two months we've been together, most has been great, and some in between has been NOT great. I've been trying to get him to ...

Why can't I leave him? He's getting married !

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for almost three years now. We've never been "official" because he always had a girlfriend/fiance. I didn't find out about her until about a year or so into our relationship, and by then I was too emotionally involved to ...

I do love him a lot, but he just doesn't care! How do I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - Well I've been with my boyfriend for 5 nearly 6 years, and we had a really bad path for about 7 months and about 2 months ago he moved out for a week and came back. Well he's back and he tells me he does love me but when I say I love you in a text ...

Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

21 November 2010 (F) - I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...

He claims to care about me but then he goes cold. Is this a waste of my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5121 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) - i am in love with a friend. we were getting closer than just friends and then he called me (cuzz). Didn't quite understand where that came from. Just a day before that, he spent the night with me. no we didn't do anything. we just layed and talked ...