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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I go out of my way for him, but what does he do for me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. We have lived together almost the entire time. Although I am almost 30 years old, I had never been in a serious relationship before. He is the first guy I have ever loved. We have had ...

Is he just trying to charm my pants off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Why do I feel like this?? what is wrong with me:(? ive been seeing this guy..hes soo sweet,, hes like the first guy..that's actually treated me right..hes soo sweet and he says he loves me dearly..(he hasn't changed after we had sex..hes still th...

I pushed my ex into a relationship with me, again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - I just pressured my ex (two years, lived together for one year) back into a relationship with me. We broke up two months ago because I got into a stupid fight with his friend. I immediately realized we were broken up for the wrong reason, so I wan...

Best friend vs. Lover

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9 November 2010 (F) - i am 45 and newly divorced. i ran into my first crush at asge 13 5 months ago and we have been seeing each other ever since. in the start he talk me he had a place 6hr away and he lived with his bestfriend that is a girl. didnt think too much ...

Why does she and is she acting so strange toward my boyfriends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - I am in a complicated relationship that seems to be jeopardising my relationship with my best friend. I’m 34 and in a relationship with a man 10 years younger than me. However, he is the best friend of the son of my friend. My friend encouraged us ...

Could someone please explain his actions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Please can you help me decipher what is going on in this man's head and where did it all go wrong? Sorry, if it's long but I need to document all the facts. A year ago I meet a man through a mutual friend. He adds me on Facebook and sends me a m...

I seem to want more than she does in a relationship, any suggestions?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - I am a male, and i have been seeing this beautiful, great women for about a year. Our relationship has been purely sexual since I first started seeing her which has been fine by me. I see her about once or twice a week, and she is just an amazing ...

My gf did something that affects my health, should I continue in this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - Hi everyone I have a serious problem with relationship... quick background: i started dated my gf in oct 2009.. everything was perfect she told me how much she likes me and wants to spend more time and she called me every day etc etc.. i fall...

He used me, hurt me, left me but I still care, how do I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Dear cupid I know this is long, please please please read it through. I am basically from India and got separated from my husband since he treated me so badly. i got into a relationship with a guy in office, we were friends for sometime and the...

My boyfriend kissed another girl, now I want to hurt him, am I wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - I need advice regarding my boyfriend we have been together for a year and half and i still cannot get over him wanting to kiss another girl when we was together for a few months he has changed so much and loves me but i still want to hurt him so ...

He is confusing me and I want to understand??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Hi, We liked each other. Went out, but not serious, for a few months. Chemistry was unbelievable. Never broke up but he pulled away. As we are not based on the same town I haven't seen him in two months. I really like him. Very much. Whe...

Am I wrong for not wanting to speak to my family ever again??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - This is a very complicated situation that has been around for many years. It is a long story but I will keep it as short as possible. Please, I really need advice so badly with this before it ruins my life even more. My father was an extremely vio...

Boyfriend made me throw up from his comments

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - After a comment my boyfriend made about my weight I started to throw up food after eating it I know I shouldn't I know it can cause a lot of health issues but if I don't do it ill sit their biting my nails feeling really anxious until I do it. I ...

We have been married for 14 years but now she needs some space, I am lost without her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - I am lost without her, My wife and i have been married 14 years and we have 3 beautiful daughters. 2 of which were hers from a previous marriage. When we were married the girls were 3 and 4. We married and have spent many great years together. ...

She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...

My boyfriend dumped me out of blue.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Hi My bf broke up with me yesterday said he does not want to get attached to me and like to start dating other girls. i am feeling very depressed, couldnt concentrate on anything. I called him twice and he swiched off his phone. please someone h...

Am I still loved?

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9 November 2010 (M) - my best friend and i have known each other for 3 yrs. we loved each other. but recently moved to florida with my and sister. since i've moved back me her havent communicated. does she still love or has she moved on???...

I am finding it hard to cope with my boyfriend being away so much, how can I change things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - How can I change things? My boyfriend is in the military and sometimes needs to go away for operations for weeks at a time. It's always been like this since we met 8months ago. There seems to be a pattern that for 2-3weeks we see each other once a ...

He is struggling to keep an erection and now we havent had sex for 2 months, my confidence is at an all time low!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now, sex was fine at first however he started having trouble keeping an erection during sex after 3 months. However, foreplay is not a problem. I confronted him about the erection problem...

My boyfriend has broken my trust....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I am hurting at the moment. My boyfriend has broken my trust and has done the worst thing anyone could ever do to me. I though he was a good guy. I told him about my past sexual abuse by father and he told his family about it. I can ...

Is it ok for me to feel like this, or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - First of all, english is not my first language, so sorry for any mistakes I could make. I started grad school in September of last year. Almost one year ago, one of my classmates and I started to spend a lot of time together outside school. ...

Help! The love of my life is joining the army!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Hello, I have a huge dilemma which is driving me mad. My boyfriend who I have known for 5 years but have been going out with for 1 has decided to join the army to train as an officer. We have quite a complicated relationship because when we ...

How can I help myself move on from a heartbreak?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - I fell in love for the first time with a girl which i actually fell in love at first sight. she eventually became my girlfriend and we had our ups and downs in our relationship. but i always forgive her no matter what. She was my first love of my ...

My fiance's girlfriend told me he doesn't love me even though he was the one to propose, how do I find out who is telling the truth here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - I have got engaged since 6 years back..and i love him crazily.he have got a lot of girlfriends, he talks with them, he calls them and he flirts with them on facebook.it hurts me.and also there is a girl who flirts with him.and 2 months back this ...

I just don't know what to do or how to feel............

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - I will attempt to make this as short as possible, but I'd really appreciate advice on this.. I will go into detail so those who do reply can have a better grasp on the situation and the people involved. I apologise in advance in regards to the ...

Scared to lose a good thing for prince charming

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am smart, extremely attractive (I may even be an actress or model) very good hearted, honest person. I have been dating my current boyfriend for over 2 years. I for the most part have never even looked at another man in that time...

I think I screw with guys head's way too much! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - I've been having a lot of commitment issues ever since me and my last boyfriend split up last July. I'm not sure if I'm settling for whats available and realizing it after it's too late and I break the poor kid's heart, or if I am just super picky ...

My lover is threatening to tell my wife everything and have me beaten up if I don't leave my wife for her!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - I have been having an on off affair for 3 years, and I just don't know what to do, I have a good wife I have been with since I was 17 and 3 beautiful daughters, the woman I am having an affair is loving and the sex is just fantastic.... but ...

I'm still hurting after he cheated on me 2 years ago, and cant shake the feeling that I am not enough for him. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - okay here goes, i just need some advice thats not so biased...and from people who don't know my soon-to-be or me for that matter..ok so this goes way back to 2008 i just found out my boyfriend had cheated on me. we were in what i would think was a ...

Should I stay with my new boyfriend or go back to my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years a few months ago. He's a great person, a great boyfriend, very loving, kind, and fun. However, our sex life was so bad i stopped wanting to have any kind of sex with him. i started to have a physical reaction ...

How can I show her that I'll do anything to get her back and that I can work hard to make the relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - I was with a girl for 5 years. Over the last 3 years, I left her for my ex, that I very quickly realized was a big mistake and and that I loved the girl I was originally with and that the only reason I jumped back to my ex was to run from problems ...

Is he really busy with his schedule, or is it someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in LDR. It's been... well, alright. Things were amazing in the beginning, but then things sorta got distance. I mean yeah we still love one another, and care. But we don't talk much anymore. Maybe 3-5 texts a day. Simple boring ones ...

My husband keeps lying to me about watching porn! How can I get him to stop?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - My husband and i have been married for almost 2 years now, but together for almost 6. We also have a duagter. We have always had great sex life, full of adventure. I was up to anything really. Within the past few months though, he has really ...

Is my boyfriend controlling or am I disrespectful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Our conversations usually go something like this. Him: Why are you wearing that? Me: I think it looks nice. Don't you? Him: Yeah, I'm sure there's going to be lots of other guys who think it looks nice too. Me: Maybe.? Him: Not maybe, def...

I never stopped loving my ex, should I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - My ex was in jail for a year. I never cheated on him, and never lied. I met someone during that time, and told him I couldn't deal with the jail thing anymore. We ended on bittersweet terms, and lost contact. I kept all his letters/drawings...

It feels like our relationship is falling apart!

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9 November 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend used to get along so perfect i couldn't have asked for more than that. i'm 18 years old and on August 12,2010 i was in a car accident and im having to stay with my mother for a few months and get everything straightened out ...

She's my first, but she's had sex with other men before me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

9 November 2010 (M) - Ok, so I am having a difficult time with the fact that my girlfriend has had sexual encounters before. She is the first person I have had sex with and I know that she has had sex other men (not many, just one from a serious relationship and one ...

How can someone you thought loved you hurt you so bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Well I will do my best to make this short and to the point but if I ramble on to much feel free to stop reading ..lol..but anywho I was with this guy for 2 years and I thought I met the "love of my life" I made this guy my everything. I did ...

I know this sounds stupid but I would like to spend the holidays with him, but I can't.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

9 November 2010 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months. Before we even started dating his sister decided that she didn't like me because I am 10 years younger than him. I have still never met her or any other member of his family. He lives in ...