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Archived questions from: 23 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I read his email, found out he cheated and now he says he doesn't trust me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend was away on course for 2 months in a different city. He was drinking a lot, very stressed and meet an old female friend he know 6 years ago on the course. When he arrived home, he very distance too me. My gut told me something happen .I ...

Should I flirt with him to see if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I don't know if I like this guy. He's one of my closest friends and I used to be completely in love with him. He's the last guy I was with, which was about 7 months ago, when I say with, I don't mean in a relationship, more of an FWB situation and I ...

Confused over online friend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - (sorry if this is long but I really need to explain everything because I need the help a lot) I'm looking for advice on something that's been the centre of my attention for quite a few months now. I met a female friend through MSN in April/May ...

Hugs and Kisses from Emma, what do they mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - About three months ago I moved from Cornwall where I had lived for all my life, to a town where everybody knew each other. My parents worked really hard to get me into the best school in the area and it just so happened a boy was leaving so I ...

I took time off work to be with her, but she wants to be elsewhere

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - my girlfriends birthday is coming up and we made plans to hang out on the weekend before it a month ago. Her friend invited her to go to the beach free of charge and they would be leaving the day before thanksgiving and coming back the sunday after. ...

He just doesn't get it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Hi there , i'm the ex partner of the guy who posted 'i think i'm wrecking everyones lives ' on november the 18 . He says he has now finished with his girlfriend of the last 7 months who i caught him cheating with when i was 8 months pregnant...

Stepfather vs. Daughter with mother caught in the middle!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - My husband continues to nag at my 15 year old daughter. She is a slop and can be moody, but she is 15. When my daugther is not around, my husband and I get a long awesome...we never argue unless it is about her. She is a good kid (honor roll for ...

Is everything completely my fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Life has been complete chaos for me in the past month. I am 18 years old and have found my first love. I have been with many guys in my teenage years and have yet to feel as close as I do to my boyfriend. The problems started a few months ago when ...

If she really wanted it, would she have to think about it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - I'm asking this question because I don't know what to do. I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago now, and it was horrible, we had argued for like 2 weeks before hand and had been together for just over 4 months, short, I know. However...

My new guy makes no effort to pleasure me, Opinions please.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months (I've known him for years) but we havent had sex. I was with a guy before and we had done everything so it took time to adjust with my new boyfriend. I know this isn't what a relationship should be about but ...

What can I do to stay occupied while he's in jail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - My man went into jail today for 30 days. I have no clue what to do to keep my mind occupied. We did just start dating but we hit it off really well and we are really into each other. I am trying to think of things to do so i wont regret doing ...

Problems in my relationship and I'm falling for another woman. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I am a lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for little over two years. Most of that time has been very, very happy. However, a few months ago, she cheated on me with my friend, but after some time apart, I decided to take her back. Since ...

How should I react to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I looked up my boyfriend's surfing history before and found out he did things he promised not to and swore he wasn't doing. After I confronted him about it he simply made sure all the surfing history is never stored and said it was "to avoid the ...

How do you deal with someone who is scared of commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Hi all, I have been in an on/ off relationship with a commitment phobe.I have read up all about his symptoms and he matches exactly and his actions are that of a commtiment phobe. Please can you advise on how to deal with such a person, as I am ...

My girlfriend says I need "more edge". What does this mean?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - My gf and i got together its been a month. We got along great and all but something has been bothering her. She hinted that I "need more edge". What exactly does this mean? I guess you can say I'm a nice guy, I treat her super well. So when she told ...

Can our relationship be successfull even though he lies and cheats?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Do you think its possible for a relationship to be successful when in the first 4 months of the relationship the man has consistently lied and cheated through it? ...

Been together a year but he doesn't call me his girlfriend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Is there any love after a year of knowing each other ?spend time together ? I really confused of my self if something wrong on me why the man i own as my boyfriend .. never claim me as his girlfriend or never say anything about ..our situation is ...

He never says he loves me, does this mean he just using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I meet a man last year november 2009 .. and from that on we meet each other as a normal girlfriend and boyfriend .. i love him from months pass by i started loving him till now we still together have sex, cooking food together , hangout do some ...

What now? I am fed up with our relationship the way it is at the moment!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years in January. We have been having a lot of problems since last year started and it become a bit hard to handle. I feel like we're growing apart and that he's becoming more and more comforta...

How do I break up with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - Hello Long but please persevere. I am in an unfamiliar situation and I don't know how to solve it. Unfortunately I was in a serious motorbike crash in January, in which both my legs and my left knee were badly broken, my left foot was crushed, I...

I just wish she'd recognise my efforts without me telling her to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - hi. Im feeling really muddled up and im looking for some help... If someone could please reply, i would be extremely appreciative and grateful... Recently i've been doing a lot for my girlfriend and sacrificing a lot to try to keep her happy. H...

Is it wrong of me to not want to walk into a situation where a man is dependent on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - met a guy this past summer, June. He and I share a mutual friend. My mutual friend told me about him and told me he'd like for me to meet him because he thought we'd be a perfect pair. Before I go on, my friend told me that his friend was from a ...

Is he only staying with me because he feels sorry for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - i'm over 8 months pregnant and been in a relationship with the father for 3 years.. hes been so supportive throughout the pregnancy financially but seems to have totally gone off me physically. i mean i dont want sex all the time or anything its not ...

I'm married but have feelings for another guy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do about this. The more I try to gain control over myself the more I am slipping away. I met Mr.A over a year ago during a time of chronic stress. At that time, I had found him very irritating and annoying. Though, I tried ...

How can we grow closer to each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - hi im in a LDR with my bf for almost one year i cant say that i love him and he loves me normally like the other couples do , our love story is unique and im so happy because im living in it though we love each other strongly, we still have ...

What should I do? Should I move in with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 3 years.recently my boyfriend started behaving wierd he never pick up my calls, stood me up on several dates when i went to see him.we are in a long distance relationship and when i suggested we break up,he told me he ...

I have a new boyfriend but cant stop thinking about my ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - so i was with my ex for 8 months before we broke up. we were both in love and i was happy with him except it was long distance and we talked maybe twice a week. we were broken up for about 3 weeks before i got with my current boyfriend(we've been ...

How do I forget about my past and parents relationship and not push this great guy and great relationship away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Let me start off my saying that I'm really scared. I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year. But I'm scared to fully commit to him. He is really great and the relationship is great. But, my past and things around has me scared to fully ...

What's the reasoning behind guys being players?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - There's this guy. From the first time girls started paying him attention he's had multiple female "friends" who he's treated as much more than friends. Throughout all this time he also had long-term girlfriends, the first one almost three years and ...

How can I not be so boring in my relationships?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - well i've been known as the nice guy and whenever Im dating someone it seams like after a week or 2 they just start getting bored of me and the relationship, and i really don't know what to do about it?! ...

Is it better to deny seeing him if he asks me out again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I finally decided to not make any more effort to be with the man i used to date in the past. I haven't called him for some months. I go out with other men instead. Sometimes he calls me, not often. We just talk but he propposes to meet each other ...

How can I finally have the guts to leave my boyfriend for good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years makes me hurt so much. Everyting will be going great;he shows me he loves me and rather stay in with me then go out but then all of a sudden it changes. We broke up for a few months and he admits he would mess around with ...

How do I fix this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I have known this guy for 8 years. He was my first kiss. We ended up falling in love. As time went by our time talking shortened and shortened. And one drunk lonely night i had sex with his cousin who he hates. He found out and we stopped talking ...

What exactly can I do to get her to open up and talk to me more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - Okay here's the story. I'm a college student currently in a relationship with a 17 year old girl. I'm 19 and even though I get clowned on for being with this girl because she's "underage"...we've both known each other for a few years now, even ...

Why does my boyfriend ALWAYS have to have someone with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - what is really goin on in my relationship? Ok why does everyday my boyfriend wakes up in the morning when he isnt working and go pick his friend up or his uncle and bring them back to the house we never really be together he always got somebody with ...

I thought we were close and now he's ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I've been in a odd situation for the pass 2 months. I finally was able to see a good friend of mine in college. We talked about our lives and what was new. But this got alittle different we both had boyfriends/girlfriends so I didnt act on my ...

How can I try and push myself to not like women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I have a question that may sound silly, but how can i try and push myself to not liking women?. I am a female that is bisexual and I have a boyfriend that I am very in love with and we are very serious about each other, but the problem is i've been ...

He disrespects me, ignores me, takes me for granted -- and still I can't leave!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Someone please help....My boyfriend is treating me like dirt but i love him so much. I know I don't deserve this, but i can't seem to leave him. I've been living with my boyfriend for about a year now. At first when we were dating he was a complet...

How do I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I met a guy online last year and we started talking a lot because we shared things in common and he was planning on moving to my city for graduate school the next year. He is not my usual type but he is a good person and I tried to give him a ...

My ex husband is back to work it out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and I'm beginning to realize that life really can suck. My ex-husband and I had been together for two years before we got pregnant. He was uber supportive through the whole thing. But right around when our son was six months old, he got ...

Does she really mean what she said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - She tells me that she likes how I am always there to talk, she said she likes that I like her but not enough to date me so w/e. Im not hear to ask what can I do to get her to like me cause its to late for that. My question is do you think she re...

I feel dumb

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Hi im erica and i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years we have a little boy whos 2 when we first got together everything was good with us and after like 1 year he started acting wierd he would go out alone and leave me at home i was about 4 ...

Why won't he apologize for cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. Eight months into our relationship he cheated on me and I forgave him. Shortly after that we moved in together and everything was good until 4 months ago.I found out he cheated again. He will not talk ...