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Archived questions from: 24 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I have physical pain and he has gotten someone pregnant, please help??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Ive been with my childs father for 13yrs on and off,our child is 7yrs old. After having our child I got on the depo provera birth control shot,that has now made me infertile(unable to have anymore children)as well given me ovarian cysts.I hve been ...

I want this to be our flat not his childrens

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i are moving into a one bed flat together soon - our first home together. he has three kids and has a family photo on his wall currently but i want one of me and him in our new flat. i don't get on with his children and want it to ...

He kicked me and I'm scared now I have to be in class with him every day

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - im 14 and the other day me and my boyfriend (who is also 14) were walkin to school and he was with all his mates and he whistled at my freind and calle her a slag and i said he was a pr*ick and walked off but he grabbed my arm and pushed me over but ...

I think b/f is looking for the perfect relationship and its not with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months and we live 40 miles from each other. We go to each other's places at week-ends and I am getting fed up of the travelling and strain that it puts on us. I think we would get on better if we lived ...

Says he wants us just to be friends, for my sake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. Sorry for this being so long and for it lacking in detail but i'm a little confused about this guy that i really like and need a bit of advice. He asked me out a few months ago but we broke up after two weeks because he felt that we ...

Fiance has had 10 plus sex partners but will not have sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - Well, like many others I have been subject to the condition of retrograde jealousy. The background is this: My girlfriend has had more than 10 sexual partners. I did not know this when I agreed that sex would not be part of our relationship. She is ...

Should I tell him I love him or wait for him to say it first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - ok so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and i know for me it was love at first sight. i just felt connected to him somehow. anyways we moved in together already and things are great. only thing is that i am having a hard time not telling ...

I think my friends with benefits is falling for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - ok i have been having a casual relationship for a while...i was burnt by some boy friends and am just having fun...from the very first we made it clear to each other that we were going to be just sex partners..anyways lately hes been looking at me ...

What is she trying to tell me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I'm asking this question because I don't know what to do. I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago now, and it was horrible, we had argued for like 2 weeks before hand and had been together for just over 4 months, short, I know. However,...

Should I end it before I get hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - hey im in this long distance realtionship. this is the first time i have tryed this and had lots of thought before. we havnt been together long about 4 or 5 months and everything was goin well unitll the other day when i went out on a night out ever ...

Did he really set this trap for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Was it wrong of me to read my boyfriend emails. this is what happen my gut told me something was wrong with our 2.5 year relationship. I asked him and he said nothing and I was overreacting. I let it go for 4 days and knowing his passwords (which he ...

Intruding mother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5113 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I had been dating this guy for around 5 months when he joined the military. And thats when my mother began almost hating him , if i asked to go spend time with him she got snooty and an attitude. She would say things like its okay if you die you ...

My boyfriend's ex wife is still the center of his and his family's life!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's ex-wife is still in the centre of his and his family's life and I dont like it ... When we met he already had a holiday book with her and the children as they were both single and good friends. I was OK about it as I thought friend...

My girlfriend said I'm a 3 or a 4 in bed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I've been going out with my girlfriend for about year. We get along well, and she's made it clear she wants to get married to me. But, she recently made the comment that I am a "3 or a 4" in bed. The way she said it, it was quite clear to me some...

He told me he doesn't enjoy receiving oral sex from me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I am seeing my current boyfriend for just over 1 year . he has recently told me that he doesn't enjoy receiving oral sex from me as I am not very good at it in fact I am quite bad at it and it doesn't do any thing for him . Now I enjoy oral sex as ...

Dealing with neediness as a male? Any tips...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I always feel a bit weird being a male but being so needy with others. Ive always passed it off as i am a people person and just like to be around others. I always need reassurance from others and hate being on my own. I have had some excellen...

I love her but we have very different opinions on important issues!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl from a little over a month now. We connected extremely fast at the beginning and things were great for several weeks. As I got to know her, however, I found out things that I'm not sure if I can deal with on a long term ...

Should I just give up and move on now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - so I called my gf several times and she never answered. So I went to investigate turns out she has been on tiny chat the past 5 hrs with some oher guy. Then she finnaly picked up and I asked her about that, she told me they werent flirting,...

I cheated on my first love and I am so scared that I will lose him! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 8 months. from the begginning i really liked him and and we started seeing eachother every weekend. one weekend got really intimate and had sex with him. after a while i saw that he layed back about ...

What can I do to cheer up and get some balance in my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Hello Everyone. Lately I am feeling very depressed, normally I am a really happy going person, but 2010 hasnt really been my year... This year Ive lost a good friend and his passing has been hard on me My girlfriend cheated, lied, broke...

Is getting out of this relationship the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I met a man .. he is married and have one daughter . he tell me that in the first time i met him .. and he found out that he loves me more and more each day ..his a muslim and he allowed to have two wife ..but for me its not fair .. i plan to get ...

Wait to get back together with ex or try a new path?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - hi I want to get back with my ex, my ex wants to get back with me after i have made clear changes in my life, she has made effort to try and fix some problems with herself. There are a few things in the way, everyone is telling me she is no...

I don't think we have much in common!

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24 November 2010 (F) - Hi i have this feeling i don't have so much in common with my fiancé,presently,i'm seeing a movie one treehill,i asked him to join me,but all he told me is,'you know i don't like movies,it bores me',really don't know wat to do but i love him...

I've cheated and totally ashamed of myself, do I tell my partner?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 and half years, for the last two years since my best friend passed away I have been terrible depressed and thinking about life so much. I have lived with my boyfriend for quite a number of years, he is a l...

I don't want to be jealous of him texting other girls anymore, how do I stop this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He has a very productive life and works around a lot of girls. He was caught at the begining of our relationship texting girls innapropriately, and he continues. All we do is argue, but i don't ...

How do I stop guys trying to get with me? I have told them so many times I want to be single!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - this may sound weird but how do i get guys to stop trying to get with me? i dress conservative,shy,sweet, and i will tell guys that i dont want a man until i get my own place,the job i actually want and etc,but the guys will keep asking me to be ...

Can things be mended? Is there still hope?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - hi there.. where should i start...ok well i was with my ex-girlfriend for 1 and half years which is quite a long time considering she was my 1st real gf and i was her 1st real bf. everything was great and ran smoothly..the biggest problem in our r...

We are trying to patch up our marriage but she is still talking to the man she had an affair with!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - Dear Cupid, I wrote a few days ago, and I asked about my wife and me. Thanks to everyone for all the advice but I have a continuing concern. My wife and I are trying to patch up our marriage but she continues to talk to the young man she had an a...

He said I have a wide vagina and now it is stopping me from enjoying sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - well.. i just met my bf 3 months ago.i became crazy about him.wanted him he has a great mind great body.he's complete for me.lately i had problems with my family and work because of him.everybody thinks he's a bad guy they want me away from ...

Why do so many women and men get jealous of another's children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I was wondering if any of you could tell me that if there is nothing to be jealous of (a man with children) then why do so many women and men get jealous of another's children? I have been wondering about this for a while. My boyfriend is 22 ...

He might be moving away so I am trying to distance myself, but he is still calling me baby!

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24 November 2010 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a few months and we have been spending time together at least once or twice a week. It is hard for both of us since I work 12 hr night shifts and he works M-F, and sometimes I work weekends. So we see each other when ...

Do people with AS have a harder time getting over their crushes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Is it usual for someone with Asperger Syndrome to have a crush on someone for decades after first meeting them? I'm talking about a crush that never led to a date. This seems really rare among neurotypical people. Do people with AS have a harder ...

Do I go into town with my 'gay' best friend or do I stay at home to keep my boyfriend happy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5118 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I enjoy going into town and going clubbing, however my boyfriend does not. We're both 18 and spend everyday together, his best friend who is also 18 has 'gay tendencies' as i call it, he claims to be straight but dresses and acts gay, he even ...

What are the signs of being strung along and why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - What are the signs that someone is stringing you along and why do they do it?...

Why did she lie? I need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - I am embarassed to be here writing this today as its something I never ever anticipated doing, but the truth in the matter is I need answers and help! i first met my gf 7 years ago,however back then she was with someone and we just got on as f...

Should I just face my feelings and confess them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I regrettably have feelings towards another man. I’ve been in a long-term relationship with a man for almost my whole adult life and we have a child. Nearly two years ago this was challenged for the first time. A man with whom I work suddenly took ...

Scared of getting hurt again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Ok i been talkin to this guy for a lil bit and im use to gettin hurt..i always have this feeling that im goin to get hurt again..im having this feelin once again but i like him..He says he likes me to but i dont know because i been hurt all these ...

Why wont he date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I am seeing this guy but we are not dating. We have been seeing eachother for about 3 months now and recently talked about dating. He does not have a job and is on parole. He says he isn't stable enough for a relationship for those reasons. I have ...

Am I holding out for a reason?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I had a relationship with this guy over the summer that ended do to the distance between us but we still talk and get along really well. I guess you could say we still act like boyfriend and girlfriend just without thte title. When ever we see each ...

I just need help to deal with my frustrations

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man (long distance) for about a year now. It started out as an online relationship, but we have met plenty of times, and he is currently working on saving money (as am I) so that we can move in together in the future. Now, we ...

Will she end up coming back to me? How long will it take?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5117 days ago

24 November 2010 (M) - Will my girlfriend of 5 years come back? I have been with this girl for about 5yrs now and just last week she told me she wanted to end it and have time to herself to figure out what she wants, next morning wake up to her wanting me to stay. a ...