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Archived questions from: 22 November, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend has pushed me and punched me but now he wants me back what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - write im 14 and the other day i was with m boyfriend and we started arguin about something stupid and he called me a slag so i pushed him backwards (which didnt move him anyway) then he punched me in the stomach and pushed me over i started crying ...

I am very confuse about my pregnant girlfriend what I'm to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - I have a pregnant girlfriend that I've been with fora year and a half but I just broken up with her today she has money I have nun she gets mad I wont keep spending on her saying I can't take care of a baby if I can't take care of her. She ...

For two years I've been with this widower but why does he keep me a secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - i have been seeing with a widower for two years, his wife sadly passed away three years ago december. He has three grown up children, but i am unsure that he has told them about me, he spends alot of time with me and my children (young), the ...

Who and what does he think he is he has a big ego and thinks he has me right where he wants me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Hi I have been in a relationship with a guy for about 3yrs but things are not going as good as they should be,and so i told him i wanted to end things. what has shocked me is his remarks to me saying this.first he said I could never say good bye...

Why do I feel in love one moment and sick to my stomach the next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Hi! I have a problem, and I don't know what to do with it.. :( So Im hoping someone out there has some advice for me.. I have been dating this guy for the last two months now, he is 26 yrs. and I am 23. I like him alot, he is everything I want in ...

Will these feelings ever go away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Hello all, When I was 17 (he was 18)I met a boy and we dated for 3 years. We were each others "firsts." Then, we ended up breaking up for about 8 months. This was the most miserable, depressing time of my life but I eventually started to move ...

How do I overcome my guilt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Hi everyone thank you very much in advance for reading my problem and answering. I love this guy so much (let us call him "shah"). We've been in relation for nearly five years and i really value him and he loves me loads. The problem started ...

Should I pretend I'm not a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - im 20, almost 21 and still a virgin. I recently dated my first real boyfriend. When i told him i was a virgin, he started treating me like a little kid. he was also a pig and would have totally held it above me, sorta notch on his belt idea. What ...

His controlling female best friend is finally out of the picture, but I'm not sure if I trust him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend had a best friend that is a girl he has been friends with since high school. Although they never dated he told me that he was once in love with her and she is really important to him. She is from his hometown and I have never met her ...

Why is my boyfriend asking another girl for her number?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - The OH and I have been going through a rough patch the last week or so , we both went out saturday night with our friends, we had a row and went our seperate ways, he made a point of chatting up a girl in front of me etc in the nightclub i just ...

It's been 24 hours and he hasn't called!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend was really busy yesterday and wasn't sure if he could make it over to see me like he said he would, but that he'd definitely see me today. He asked me to call him at a particular time to arrange everything and said if he didn't answer ...

Confused but committed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - I cant seem to break my habit of constantly asking my girlfriend if she is happy in our relationship and she is getting annoyed by it, I have been told it is because of a lack of confidence in myself and in our relationship..but here's the ...

He's just too into me! How can I tell him to bug off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I need some help here. There's this guy at my workplace who really likes me. I mean even after I told him I have a boyfriend, he still tells me I'm his type of girl and that he'd love to marry me. At first I thought he was k...

Why is she keeping this a secret?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - been dating my gf for 6 1/2 months and been living together for about a month. We are a typical couple and we fell in love about 2 months into the relationship maybe even a bit sooner. Anyways, as of recent I have noticed a change in my gf. Since ...

How can I repair our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - Dear All, I have been with my girl friend for 10 months now, I love her a lot, I have'nt had a lot of relationships before her, She visited ethiopia in July to attend her freinds wedding and met up with her ex - boy freind, before she left ...

I don't like my fiancee working with her ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - Hey This is my situation. Me and my girl work in the same industry and have known each other online for many years but have never met in person till about 1.5 years ago. Long story short we were friends but then something happened and without real...

Help! My girlfriend seems to be having second thoughts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - So me an my girl will have been going together for a year this January. This is my first relationship and her second. We are both 20. Are relationship has also been sexual for this time. We have had many fights in this time but have always ...

My husband just disappeared but is all over her facebook page!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (?) - 21 years married 24 years together, two kids, I was happy I thought I had the best husband, he was so good to me then the unexpected happened 3 1/2 years ago he had an affair, from the internet, I was unable to forget....I fougnt with him ...

Is my girlfriend losing interest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - So, I'm confused. After spending nearly 4 months in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend, I'm getting ready to visit her. The problem is, I have no idea how my girlfriend views our relationship or me. She is not the type who likes t...

Should I call it quits? It's like we aren't even in a relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - About a month ago i met this guy and we clicked right away we would have long phone conversations every night he would text me and keep in touch all the time. He asked me out but i told him i wanted to wait until we got to know each other more ...

My fiance doesn't trust me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - hi please help.. im 39 and my fiancee is 41, we are due to get married in 4 months, but i know he doesnt trust me example of this is: my birthday yesterday, he popped out for a half hour, he secretly turned off our internet so i couldnt check my...

My husband with obsessed with my past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I have been married for the past 20 years. I had many sexual relationships before marriage. My husband is obsessed with my past, wanting to know every detail. He like wise has a past, so i don't see what the big deal is. These questions are often ...

Online guy thinks I'm single, but I'm back now with my boyfriend, who doesn't know about online guy. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - hello if anyone can help me i more than appreciate it. I have a boyfriend for the last 6 and half years. We've had our ups and downs and its been on and off lots of times. 2 months ago we decided to finish our relationship. I ended up...

Should I move back in with my parents before she evicts me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - I've been in a relationship for more than three years. We've had our share of bad moments but we've managed to move on so far. But now that I'm unemployed, I've started to question whether this is the woman I deserve. Near the beginning of our ...

I have a partner but I want to holiday alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I live with my partner of 10 years, we are both in our 50's, we both took early retirement and I now find we have very little in common although I do love him. I find myself wanting to go on holiday abroad with a solo group - this is because I want ...

I helped influence my boyfriend to disown his son

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a 6 year old son by another woman. When I came into the picture there was hardly a bond between them which I was not surprised at, he only saw the child twice a year and spoke on the phone with him. I felt this burning resentment ...

He says he loves me, but wants to be with his single friends too...how do I support him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now, but lately he has been struggling with being in a relationship. Almost all of his close friends are single and I know he's getting crap from them. We're having a less contact and I'm ...

I am having an affair with my boss and his wife knows about it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I m in love with my boss, he loves me too. He is 15 years senior to me, is married and has 2 kids. it all started from his side andhe says that he wants to marry me... we are in a relationship for 5 years now, there have been all sorts of problems ...

Am I being taken for a fool, or am I paranoid like she says?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5115 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - i need help i feel im at a loss over the occuring months i have been posting frequently on here and today im going to give the fullest picture i can. my (ex)partener and I have been together for 18months and we have a 10 month old child togeth...

I believed he was single, now I am pregnant and want to tell his wife!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - OK here it is.. I am a 35 year old woman. I met a guy who was introduced through a great friend.. this man told me for more than a year he was divorced and that he lived alone in a house with his daughter and his dog. after a year of talking w...

She says I'm not a man because I'm sensitive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (?) - hello guys i need help with my gf now for the past year and 4 months i've always been lovey dovey with my gf and she was happy that i was i know i never smothered her but just recently she says she wants a "MAN" and being lovey dovey and ...

We broke up but we still like to hang out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: Two questions from same asker combined. Okay.. So here we go..(sorry it is sooo long!). My ex and I were dating for 6 months and broke up 7 months ago. He broke up with me. When we were dating I always went over to his house, and when I d...

Which one of us is being selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - I initially agreed to go to a concert with this particular female, but recently changed those plans due to that fact that I decided to spend Thanksgiving in another state and see my kids that I have not seen in several years. Needless to sa...

Was I dreaming things will work out or just being insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I'm quite upset my boyfriend of 14 years was sending dirty pictures and chatting nasty with women on the internet. This one women he actually gave his cell phone # and he was telling her he loved her for over 3 weeks. After two weeks of fighting and ...

I just want to move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - had bf he was my first love but off and on for three years my first in every thing but he hurt me flirting talking to gitls just when i had the strength to end it i forgave him again and then i found again he still talked to another girl flirting ...

My friend is always eager to put me down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I have a guy friend who I feel like is always eager to put me down. I don't know if I'm just being overly sensitive or paranoid, but I just feel like he's always on me and ready to point out flaws or make fun of things I do or flake on me after ...

We had casual sex, why is he avoiding me on facebook now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - If a guy avoids you on Facebook could he like you or loathe you?...He always signs out like two minutes after I sign on. Lol.. We had casual sex once. Its weird because he smiles when he sees me, but that could just be because he's nice. I was shy ...

Together 8 months and all we do is fight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 November 2010 (M) - Ok here is the thing. My name is Tommy I 25 my girlfriend maria is 23. We been together for almost 8 months. Things are almost perfect but latey all we do is fight. Please help me. I don't want to lose her....

I think my boyfriend is a just "now" boyfriend and not a "later" boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about four months now. We started having sex about two months ago. The sex just isn't good. It has gradually gotten better but it's still not where it should be. I don't think it's him, I think it's me. I'm just not ...

Boyfriend says he will change for me but then goes back to his bad ways!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - hi This is my little sister who had a problem and i really dont know how to help her (she uses my email cuz her bf has her email password and she dont want him to see the question) hi im a sixteen years old girl , im loving a guy and he is a...

I was teasing and he took it seriously and now I don't know what is going on!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Okay so to start off, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months anyway today we we're hanging out and I was giving him a blowjob and I stopped and kidding around said ya know you're so mean, I always do this for you blah blah blah, BUT I was totally ...

Why does my boyfriend tell me one thing do another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend constantly tells me one thing and does another. He also goes behind my back to other people to make me look bad to them. When confront him about it he lies and says it isnt true. He says he loves me and im sure he isnt cheating what ...

Why do I try to seek closure, when the guy has made it clear?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - Why do I try to seek closure, when the guy has made it clear? I was dating a guy for a short time (1 month). I wasn't sure if we would be good together, and he just kept working at getting me to like him and I ended up falling for him. He started ...

Does "not ready now" mean "not ready ever"???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - I am so crazy about my boyfriend. He listens to me, does nice things to make my life easier or more pleasant, and does little things to make me feel special. We've been together for a couple years now. The first year or so we didn't see eachother ...

I kissed a guy when I was drunk, told my boyfriend and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5119 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - As background, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and were quite happy together. We were near engagement, so it's a very serious relationship. I went to a going away party this weekend and got blackout drunk at the end of the ...

How can I convince my friend she's making a big mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

22 November 2010 (F) - My friend and I are freshmen in high school. She is a beautiful smart exotic girl who "loves" this total jerk. Before the summer when she first got a phone he would text her and say that he loved her and ask constantly if she wanted to meet and have ...