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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He likes shopping... is he gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - My man who has been living with me for 11 months is a bit different from your regular guy. He loves shopping, furniture,shoes,bags,womens underwear and clothes. He is always saying oh that would look good on you or you should buy this.......

We never have time together anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - Hello i have been with my bf for close to a year. We are both nearly 22. Recently i have been feeling some pressure on the relationship as he never seems to have any time for me. We both work full time and then when it comes to weekends, if his...

Are these real problems or is he just trying to get me back into bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - This is all very complicated,4 years ago i had split with my long term partner of 16 years and had been on my own for a few months when i met this guy everything was going fine then 6 months in he gets cold feet and doesnt want to be in a ...

I no longer want to be with my fiancee and I like his best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5118 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - I'm looking for advice. I'm engaged to the father of my child. I'm no longer in love with him but I don't hate him. We get along fine and we "love" each other but the love is gone. It has been for a few years now. He has a friend, a best friend...

Should I let him go, or hope that I will fall in love with him eventually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for sometime now, for about a year. He's in love an I'm not. He want to be a family with me an my kids honestly I could care less. Do I need to just let go or keep hoping to fall in love with him. ...

Am I destined to be alone because I don't want children?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - I am a 25 year old female and I do not have children. I dont want children- never have and never will and this is something that I will not compromise on as its not fair to bring a child into this world that is not wanted. Anyways, that ...

I regret turning him down, but if I do ask him out then my friends might make fun of us both...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - Ok, my best guy friend is really awesome. He's really funny and intelligent too. We joke about silly things, like in fifth grade when he asked me out and I replied 'where?'We drifted apart once we left that school, because we were on different sides ...

I'm only going out with her because I don't want to be alone, but she is already talking about marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (M) - Ok I'm 19 years old and 4 months ago i started dating one of my good friends and she makes me happy but she thinks I'm her future. Like were going to get married right out of college, and that is scaring me. She is a good friend and I hate ...

I regret telling him how I feel about him.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - The thing is that I told this boy I love about my feelings... and now I kind of regret it and feel very anxious and guilty ALL THE TIME.It`s like a torture,I feel stupid for sending him a letter I knew that he would not respond positively,it never ...

How do I get out of this relationship? I am a saver, he is a spender and it is just not working!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of several years is upset im not buying him a house, car, and lavish gifts. I make much more money than he does, and its a sore spot. Im a saver, he is a spender. He has had several flighs over the years and refuses couciling, stating ...

My boyfriend, his ex and me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - My bf and i have been together for nearly 2 years, we're really close and love each other very much, we both say how we really couldnt see ours lives without each other. thats great. the thing is there are things which keep coming up and upset me. ...

Am I asking too much? He barely touches me and wont consider oral because of a bad experience with his ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - Hello, Well I'm 20 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for little under a year, i love him so much and i know he dose me but he never goes down on me and hardly touches me down their. It has gotten to the point that i like being on my peri...

Should I tell him how I feel even though I am married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - LEASE HELP ME............I am very attracted to a man i met at my son s school our kids are friends. I am married and i love my husband but i don t think i am still in love with him. I saw this other man all the time on and off at the school and i ...

The affair is over, but now the other woman is moving into our neighbourhood! How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - Husband had an afair, he has assured me its over it look as if his telling the truth but now she is moving in to town and not to far from where we are staying. how do I handle this? she is walking around as if we are stil best friend and that I ...

Should I be worried he thinks another girl is fit or is he just being a boy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - I read a text on my bfs phone [I know I shouldn't have] and it was talking with his male friend from college about this fit girl from their college [I go to a different college to him] and my bf was agreeing she was fit etc. Should I be worried or ...

I want to be able to see my son when I want but his father wont let me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - My son is 16yrs old, his father has primary custody of him, but we both have joint custody. My son wants to be able to come to my house whenever he wants, but his dad is sticking to the court papers, only when its my son wants to come over. I ...

I'm not sure if he loves me anymore....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and for the most part it has been long distance but a little over 6 months ago he decided to move home .. things were great but he was not able to find work out here and things got sour , i ...

Does he mention her name because he likes her, or just for a reaction from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - Hi all, I hope someone can help with this! There's a guy I work with and I am very attracted to him, in fact we have had quite a few moments where there is strong chemistry in the air and this seems to be constant lately, we can't seem t...

Problems with my partner of 3 years.............

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3 November 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do with my partner of three years. We are bickering almost daily, but when we get on we share everything. He does lots for me and financially supports me but he is soooo very insecure. He seems to use any excuse to sulk for ...

He is getting me a sexy outfit from an adult store for my birthday present, despite knowing how I feel about this! What should I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - My birthday is coming up soon and ill be 21 I asked my boyfriend what he was getting me for my birthday he told me it was from a (Adult store) and he wouldint tell me anything else. Even tho i asked him not to get me a sexy costume! I recen...

Do you think going to dinner with another man when you are married is bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (M) - My wife is in SoCal for a confernece and went to dinner with a old high school guy friend. At first she hid it from me, then I found out about it when I saw it on her phone from a text. My wife always says that there is nothing there, yet tonight ...

Can anyone help with the issues I am having in my relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - I am a 24 year old woman who has been in relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We live together, share finances, pets everything! But over the past year we have had sex less than 5 times, don't even kiss apart from on the cheek and hug ...

I never thought it would feel so horrible to go along with sex when you don't really feel like it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - Female age 20 here, dating a male age 21. Been dating for over a year now, living together for 8 months. Lost our virginity to each other, relatively healthy and active sex life. Had a bit of a mistake today and I'm having trouble dealing with it ...

Why have I not had an orgasm yet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - i am 18yrs of age, i have a birthday coming up i'll be 19. i am very into sex i only had sex with 5 guys and im with someone, love him like hell but i never had an orgasm, why is that?...

Why don't intelligent people see this guy for what he really is?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

3 November 2010 (?) - I,m writing this as i can of need to vent my feelings. I know a guy who at first i thought was pretty decent, seemed nice etc... turns out i couldn't have been more wrong, let me explain. We slept together a few times last year, i thought he he ...

My girlfriend says she is a different person around me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5114 days ago

3 November 2010 (M) - hi guys, i want a little reassurance or some pointers, i have no clue about this and dont know what to make of it i have been talking with my gf, shes having nervous breakdowns because work is so hard and shes having anxiety attacks etc, she ...

He told me part of him wants to be with me, but the other part wants to give the mother of his child another chance!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5134 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend txt me and letting me know that part of him wants to be with me, and part of him feels like he needs to give his daughter's mom a chance together, and yet his saying he just letting me know and he doesnt know what his going to do yet ...

I've realised I have messed up but now she has lost all her feelings for me! What can I do to bring them back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (M) - Hie guys, i am a guy aged 31 married for 3 and half years to a 25 year old lady. We have a two year old kid together. The problem is during this whole period my wife used to complain that i dont show her love and i dont talk to her. This was for ...

I am in a committed relationship but there have been so many other guys, have I done something wrong or has the situation caused me to act this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - i am typing this question as i couldn't find a proper answer,plz somebody help me. i am in a commited long distance relationship since 1 year 4 months.i have messed up very badly.i really love my bf and even he loves me a lot but now i have created ...

Why does it seem like he doesn't know how lucky he is to have me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for a year and 4 months now. I love him, he loves me. We tell each other this regularly and do little things to show we care (he folds my laundry, I cook him breakfast, etc.) But honestly, I feel like I do those th...

Boyfriend google searching other girls, I am dumbfounded

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about 11 months. We see eachother around two or three nights a week due to our conflicting work schedules. He is a sweet, loving and loyal man for the most part. The only time we argue...

Will I have to pay child support if my pregnant girlfriend leaves me for her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (M) - Me and my current girlfriend got together shortly after we broke up with our ex's. She had sex with her ex the day before he broke up with her, and we had sex every day for about two months after that, with me inducing her period for a short time ...

So many relationship problems, I just don't know what to do anymore....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

3 November 2010 (M) - Hi i am 26 and i have been in my current relationship for over three years now and we have a little girl of 18 months. Oh yeh we have lived together for a little over two years. Since i have been with my current partner she has lied about talking to ...

8 chances! Why can't she see what everyone else sees?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - how can I help my little sister see that 8 is more then enough chances for a guy? her and her boyfriend fight constantly and have broken up several times! we both believe in second chances, but she needs to see that he's not going to magically ...

For the Men: Would you, in time, ever leave your partner for the other woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5136 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - A question for all the men out there. If a man in a relationship (no married/no children) likes/loves another woman but tells her, after the first kiss, about his relationship and that he 'cannot leave her' (meaning, the official partner), is there ...

Why are People so angry ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - I was watching the Today Show this morning and they were talking about manner how we don't seem to show good manners anymore and how people are angry; when I was watching this piece it's so right we are angry at politics and the struggle of our ...

4 years later (the ex nightmare)

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3 November 2010 (F) - hello! well I'm gonna start from the beginning, I'm currently 18 years old (19 in DEC) and I'm married, so i started dating my husband when i was 14 yrs, so he had an ex girlfriend she loved him a lot and she went crazy when she found out i was ...

I love my boyfriend but he is smothering me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 years, our whole relationship has been messy. I am 23 years old ( mature for age) and he is 33. Previously been married and has a child with her, she is 9. We meet at work and he cheated on his ...

Girlfriend issues with attention from other guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5139 days ago

3 November 2010 (M) - I have a girlfriend of about 3 months, but have dated for 6 months prior. We have had our fair share of fights yet care about each other enough to keep it going. She has always had the tendency to seek attention, and it is bothering to me as it ...

I don't want to waste any more time if he doesn't think we'll ever marry

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (F) - I've known my boyfriend for about 10 months now. We dated for 2 months, broke-up, were friends/cuddle buddies for about 6 months, and finally we got back together again. It's been two months since we've started dating for the second time. Things are ...

Her distrust is putting a real strain on our relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5138 days ago

3 November 2010 (?) - I've been with my girl for over a year we've been through a lot I have only lied a few times about small things that where in the past and I even cut off contact with a good friend(female) just to save our relationship and after I did my girl still ...