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writes: How long was it before your current partner said they loved you (or you them)? My current girlfriend told me within two weeks of dating each other. I did think at the time that it was a bit soon to tell me that but she said that she 'just knew'. I think I told her about three months into the relationship. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): Unfortunately and in all reality there are no such thing as love only chemical messenger's in the brain.!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): 3 weeks
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reader, glassblower  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 Hmm. My boyfriend and I were best friends for two years, and then when his girlfriend broke up with him, he told me he loved me and we got together. Hope that helps! xoxo glassblower
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): Those words imo are harmful to a relationship because they build lots of expectations and increase the emotional risk taken by both parties. Besides, theyre just words and actions should count much more. However, Im not one to judge so best to you man.
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reader, daletom +, writes (20 October 2010):
Wow - that happened over 37 years ago! It was about a month to 6 weeks after I met my wife that I told her I loved her. I thought about it for a while before I actually said it. I don't recall when she reciprocated, but it wasn't too long after that. (I should mention that we had written to each other, progressively more serious letters, for about 3 months before we actually met. I don't know how you account for that time if you're trying to compute some kind of "average time" before saying it.)
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