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36-40,
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writes:I met her a year ago and we met at her school cafeteria and talked a lot and I walked her to her dorm and left. We exchanged emails about plans but she left the country for a while. About a month ago I received a random text from her and all of a sudden we texted each other and made plans for a meeting at her place.I met her at her apartment and we walked around and stopped by a restaurant for a drink. She paid for the drinks I know that was a no no but she remember things I talked about from our first meeting and we talked about family and life. I also talked with her about sexual intercourse and she answered my question. After the drink we walked to her apartment and she said we should hang out again and I am confused and have sent her an email and a couple texts. I am giving her space because she works a lot and does not like obsessive people. I told her I will wait but I'm not sure if she wants me as a lover a friend or if she is moving away from me because I am being ignored by her and I do not like being ignored but I think she's doing it for her own personal reasons. Somebody please give some insight , observations, intuitive thought or helpful advice about my situation with her. Please and thanks.
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reader, Ven +, writes (20 October 2010):
You need to slow down with her. If you have hung out twice in one year, you have no clue what she is thinking.
Assume for now that she just wants a friend.
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