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female
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36-40,
*ettie
writes:hi, I've this guy ve been going out for 2 years but i broke up with him about 6 months ago. We started as friends later one thing lead to another and we started kissing but i noticed after that he was different cos he gets angry easily and all sorts but because i loved him i over looked it but he always says i should get the all thing in head cos he was really tall but inside me i felt maybe some good will come out of it, we quarell and settle. I stopped seeing him for about 8 months after that he called me and we settle our differences that same day i had SEX with him (he took my virginity), after that we started seeing each other and having sex. After some weeks with him, he received a call and at the end of the conversation he told the girl 'I LOVE U', i was speechless but i didn't ask him cos i was confused, after that night a week later i went to his place and to my surprise his mum was knocking on his door but he didn't open, i told him to open but he didn't, they kept banging on the door so hard that i was scared but he didn't open.Later he sent a text to his brother 2 tell his mum that he is not around. Later his mum stopped knocking, i was lucky that they didn't force the door open, i left there embarrassed cos the look on the gateman was bad. I called him later that night that we need to talk but he told me on the phone that whatever i want to say, i should say it on phone, i felt so bad that day like i was so irrelevant, the next day he called and asked what i wanted to say but i told him i need to see him but he refused and the funniest thing is that he never apologised for what happened at his place. After a month he started calling that he wanted to see me but i told him that i was not around even on christmas he called that he wanted to spend the day with me but i told him i was busy, after about 3 months i called him and told him am no longer interested in the relationship that i can't continue to date someone who is ashamed to show me to his mother that i have gotten someone who isn't afraid of that but i don't know if he believes me, but recently, he called me back but i have already deleted his number and I asked 'who is this' and he said 'why did i delete his number?' i told him that i just don't have his number, he asking why? i told him that 'DO U WANT TO START QUESTIONING ME OR U JUST CALLING TO SAY HELLO?', he said he wanted to say hi and he dropped. Since then i ve not been myself. I want you to advise me on what to do and did i made a good choice by letting him go?
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reader, elisabeth027  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Of course this is my opinion But YES i think you did make the right choice. I think you are doing everything right, deleting his number and trying to avoid contact.
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