A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My boyfriend of five months has a really colourful past which I find so difficult to deal with in the context of a relationship. He has had sex with men numerous times, in ridiculous situations - a gay cinema in which they show pornography and a gay sauna (and a few others). A few of these where whilst he was in relationships because he claimed to be dissatisfied with their relationship. He also has had a pornography addiction, whereby gay porn and transexual where his 'thing'. Since we have been in a relationship he declares that he is completely straight and yet he is so curious about having sex with a transexual. Is he in denial and just wanting a 'normal' family whereby his family will accept him? Since we have been together he has also gone into a gay chat room to speak to a transgendered person about sex. He still watches pornography numerous times a day because he is addicted to the feeling of an orgasm. It makes me feel as though I am not close to what he wants. He also cant orgasm when having sex with a woman and only has when having Sex with a man. I really have no idea what to do about this situation or how to cope with it because its always on my mind.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (20 October 2010):
Why exactly are you still with him?? He's clearly gay.
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