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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend finds it hard to cum when his laying on his back. He gets the feeling but nothing happens, and he can just go on and on.. Can you suggest anything?? Reply to this Question
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reader, EtTuBrute  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Why not try different positions? Switch it up every now and then. There are tons of exciting new ways to get close to your partner and help him cum.
Simply google sexual positions. You usually won't get dirty sites with the SafeSearch on. Just silhouettes of two people in the position.
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reader, daletom +, writes (21 October 2010):
I think the majority of people, both men and women, find it's more difficult to reach climax when they are on their backs, underneath a partner. For decades - maybe centuries, or even millenia - women have complained about sexual sessions that "left them hanging", or "So close to orgasm but couldn't get over the edge", etc. Your guy is probably experiencing the same thing: excitement, arousal, stimulation, arousal, arousal, arousal, arousal, arousal, arousal . . . eventually, frustration and an uncomfortable, cramped feeling in the genitals (slang term "blue balls").
Ummm . . . this seems pretty obvious, but why don't you just change positions after a while? I think the majority of couples settle into one or two sequences of positions that they use when they make love. Aside from that - try taking your weight off him. Most people don't like to be mashed into the mattress - support yourself more on arms and legs, so he has more freedom of movement and can position things for better effect. Or, try reaching around and gently caress his inner thighs and genitals.
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (21 October 2010):
 why is this a problem for you. most girls thing their b/f cums too soon.
the answer is to try other positions. if it really
is a problem then try tightening your p.c. muscles.
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reader, marymomnwife +, writes (20 October 2010):
I say hop on and enjoy the ride;-)
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