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writes:I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 1 year and 10 months. We have broken up many times but it wasn't serious ones. the reason we have broke up was because I was bored of our relationship. His a really nice person I've hurt him few times. I have shared a lot things with him, he's like a best friend and a boyfriend at the same time. I know myself really well if I break up with him I'm going to regret it so much I'm going to feel so bad about what I've don't to him. I see him nearly every day because he comes to the same college. I'm trying so hard sometimes I'm lying to myself by saying I love him but I think I don't feel the same towards him which affects the way I act towards him because when I'm bored of him I start to act cold to him.... I find hard to say some stuff like e.g I miss you and more.... I need your help please but please reply back. I don't know what to do....
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reader, has +, writes (20 October 2010):
has is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm going to see him everyday we go to the same college I'm going to feel bad.......I've got a bigger problem I've lost my feeling towards him before and tolled him about it and he was nearly going to commit suicide I really don't want this to happen....I don't want to brake up with him its just sometimes I loose my feelings towards him is there any other thing i can do apart form finishing this relationship....thank you so much for the answers..... reply back please x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 October 2010):
The fact that you've already broken up many times proves it's over. A truly committed couple simply don't break up and get back together all the time. I think he is your friend and nothing more. And I think the time has come for you to step up and do the right thing by letting him go and find a girl who doesn't find him boring. You won't regret breaking up with him when you meet the man of your dreams. But you will regret not breaking up with him if you hurt him even more by staying together.
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