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30-35,
*exxiylove
writes:I cheated on my boyfriend a bit ago, and he forgave me and we're very happy. But the guy i cheated on him with is still in my life. We're friends and what not. Just friends though. But i'm getting my old feelings back from him. But i love my relationship with my boyfriend. What should i dooo?
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (21 October 2010):
 Decide whether you want to be with your boyfriend or the other fella. If you want your bf you need to stop being friendly with the other one.
Either that, or break up with them both and be single for a while.....
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reader, TakeMeAsIAm +, writes (21 October 2010):
 I would say to fight the temptation to cheat again. Don't throw away something that you nearly lost and have been fortunate to regain. It would be unfortunate if you cheat with this friend and then you realize that it was just a temporary rush of feelings that you felt and then your bf may not be so forgiving this time and you will also breakdown the trust that you both have rebuilt.
Maybe what attracts you to this guy is something that is lacking in your current relationship. Try and think about it and see if you can pin point what it is and try and introduce it to your relationship with your bf (if this is possible).
You are still young, but from my experience, heartache stills hurts that much at that tender age.
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reader, jason221 +, writes (21 October 2010):
First of all, don't cheat on him and then break up with him. If you know you're going to go back with your ex then break up with your bf first. Don't go for the second free sample. But before you decide to go back with the old one, think about why you broke up with him in the first place. Right now I'm guessing your hormones are reminding you only of the good times you had... but if you make the decision to go back with the ex, you might be taking a step back and your current boyfriend might not be there for you to fall back on again if it turns out to be a mistake. So think about what you'll lose instead of what options you have (especially if you have a good relationship with him)
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