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writes:ok i met my boyfriend on myspace... we fell in love over the internet and became very very close! after about 5 months of that i moved down to texas to be with him.. and we have a great relationship, good sex, very open and we both love each other very much.. i have trust issues tho... one day i checked his messages on his phone and found that he had called a girl gorgeous while he was mad at me... then today... our 6 month anniversary... im looking at his pics on facebook and this chick said he looked good.. well, he commented back you always look good.. then she says did you see my booty pics? and he replys yeah it looks yummy as fuck... an he says but you already know that... this hurt my feelings so damn bad.. and i told him about it.. he says he doesnt remember writing it.. it was back in august..On the 8th i moved down on the 5th of august... i feel like im not what he wants even tho he tells me all the time he loves me... he tells me im gorgeous cause thats the only thing he could say, he thinks it means more than beautiful.. but then he calls this other chick gorgeous when hes mad at me and claims he calls all his girl-friends that.. BULLSHIT i love this guy i gave everything up for him he talks about having a life together and kids and all that but i just dotn know what to think with what he says to other girls over a phone and facebook.. am i just overreacting?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2010): writer*today...after writing that im still hurting really bad over it, it burns something fierce..and thbis chick continues to talk to him..saying if he comes back to arizona they should hangout...i dont like it...i dont want to tell him who he can and cant talk to, i would never do that...i told him it really hurt my feelings that he said that to her and he says he doesnt remember saying it but that hes sorry....i know i was right there with him when he said that...i just for some reason..cant get over it...it keeps comin to the front of my brain forciung me to think about it...
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reader, Ricemonster  +, writes (20 October 2010):
 I think you're not over-reacting per se, but you reacting much more negatively than what I feel is 'just about right'. Your boyfriend doesn't realize that his generalization is hurting you. That's a big problem amongst the natural male. He should learn to make a compromise of your feelings and his female friends. I don't think that he should stop complimenting other women, but he could do so with a little less 'spaz'.
Eg: when I am detached, I tend to compliment women by saying they are "delicious" and "damn fine". When I am attached, I usually say they are "cute" or "quite nice".
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reader, mimisoph3 +, writes (20 October 2010):
 your reading the little signs..no matter how long or serious you are in the relationship there will always be girls commlimening him..but i agree if he was with you he shouldnt really be commplimenting them back. He sounds fake so dont both with him if you feel like its wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): Do you really think that this 'man' is actually worth giving everything up for. You need to sit downa nd talk to your man, if you still have doubts then i think that you should get out of there before things become too serious. You have already put (By the sounds of it) a lot of time and effort into the relationship, just dont wear your self down and loose your confidence.
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