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anonymous
writes:I cheated on my boyfriend and kissed someone when I was drunk I feel bad, he's cheated on me in the past but I felt worse that he had lied to me I want to tell him but I don't know what to say
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2013): It was just a kiss yes, nothing more. Yes I do feel guilty, no I'm not saying because he's cheated that it should be less worse I know what I have done and I know that it was stupid. I regret it. He did have sex with someone else I haven't had sex with someone else. Yes I do love him. And I do regret and of course I feel guilty.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (5 May 2013):
 You guys aren't destined to be. If you've both cheated on each other, you don't love each other. You should take the cheating on both ends as a more than obvious sign...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2013): Why do anything constructive at all? Or have you just got a guilty conscious ? So he cheated you cheated so that is all supposed to make it alright? So he even lied to you? Surprise what else did you think that this kind of life style would produce? Are you that dumb that you cant see the forest from the trees? Who is to say he isn't banging somebody right now while you put on this phony show of conscious. So you kissed another guy. I bet you did more than kiss him right? No? Okay. If you want to change then take some positive steps. You stop screwing around completely and you get your husband to do the same. If you can get up the stomach to do this. How can you live with yourself? I have been in a relationship with a man for over three years and he could of had hundreds of opportunity to mess around but he didn't. Why you ask? Because of a good relationship that he has with me and vice versa. We work hard on our relationship to keep it going strong. Hear the magic word? We both work hard on the relationship together. I know right now where he is and what he is doing. And he knows now what I am doing at home. We like it that way and wouldn't change it for anything. Does this sound intrusive? I say no. We know what each of us is doing because we communicate it freely to each other and have a chalk board in the kitchen where we post events. We make time in our busy lives for each other. And yes that takes sacrifice but we are both willing to do that. Yes, I know that sex sometimes takes a back seat but you can be intimate without having sex to when necessary. Try laying down beside each other just hold each other a couple minutes three times a day this will make a big difference also. Why don't you try telling your husband that you love him if you do and rebuild a relationship that has gone off into left field somewhere? Good-luck.
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (5 May 2013):
You were drunk so didn't know what you were doing. Just tell him that.
Considering your husband's history he should forgive you or else he's a hypocrite.
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