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reader, DV1  +, writes (26 May 2013):
 Get an uncontested divorce...
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reader, jenn_jenn  +, writes (6 May 2013):
In that case you need to speak to immigration. She is blackmailing you and you are a victim. Do not give her any money otherwise she will always do this.
Good luck
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 May 2013):
 you need a good attorney.... that's the best advice I can give you...
once the divorce is final (and you can get it done without her consent I know I got a divorce from my second disaster without anything from him) then block her and be done.
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reader, Jayman84 +, writes (6 May 2013):
Jayman84 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I.did.find someone else but now that she.has seen pics of me.and.my.new wife to.be shes refusing to annul our marriage unless I give her money first and those kids she has are not.mine thank.god.thanks for all your comments.
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reader, jenn_jenn +, writes (5 May 2013):
You can do so much better. You deserve to be with someone who loves you. Don't stay married to this woman. She will only use you for her benefits, and will not consider your happiness.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (5 May 2013):
It's definitely time to move on and forget about her completely. She's poison for your life.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (5 May 2013):
 I suggest that TWO things are in-order, here.....
1. Arrange for you and her to be DIVORCED (OR... maybe better.... get your marriage ANNULLED... .on the claim that it was fraudulant in the first place.....). Then...
2. Once you've done that, contact the USofA INS (Immigration Services) and make THEN aware that you were duped in to a fraudulant "marriage".... and identify this lovely "wife" of your's to them.... and ask that they (INS) flag her as a fraudulant "citizen".....
WHY not be a firm in destroying her ruse, as she was in perpetrating it in the first place?????
Good luck....
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reader, la femme jolie +, writes (5 May 2013):
You should feel grateful that your "green card bride" showed her true colors early on. Do what you can to support your kids and don't entertain the notion of reconciliation with an immoral, user of a woman. Find yourself someone to love who can return love and loyalty. Keep relations cordial with this woman for your kids' sake. But do Not attempt a reconciliation.
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