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writes:Hi i am going through a really bad time at the moment i have just recently had a miscarriage my boyfriend split up with me the day after we had all these plans of marriage and children he said he needed space and he is a loner what did he mean i cant get in contact with him as he has changed his number what do i do i feel so empty thanks
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (6 May 2013):
 Both your miscarriage and your boyfriend breaking up with you - ESPECIALLY the very next day(!) are devastating for you.
We can't know exactly what your boyfriend meant in saying he needs space and is a loner. We can only guess. Seems to me he suddenly realized he just isn't ready to take on the responsibilities of marriage with a baby already (or soon to be) present.
You are BOUND to feel empty, numb and disappointed and will need to take some time to absorb this double shock. Not to mention time to rest and heal physically and emotionally from losing your baby.
The only "comfort" I can offer you is that at least he was honest in ending your relationship (though even if he ended it he might have shown some sympathy for your loss).
If he changed his phone number there isn't really anything you can do - except turn to your family and friends for support. POSSIBLY he might decide to call sometime just to see how you are doing.........
I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Take care of yourself.
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