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*oeshamo
writes:Okay so my sex techniques aren't good enough for my girlfreind . Before you over look this as me not going down on her or lacking basic no how, let me explain in detail. I have been with 8 women and made 3 of them cum (squirt, and p***y clench). My first girlfreind left me because I wasn't good enough in bed so I have read a ton of books, watched instruction videos, searched on line and experimented on my own. She has been with a ton of guys (is 22 I'm 20), and told me 4 of them have made her cum. When I had sex with her she had been extremely horny. I swear I foreplayed with her for at least 30 minutes feeling like an hour. I had spent a long time kissing and rubbing along her back and front (won't drag this into a 2 page sex novel so I'm gonna be general). Anyways kissed her long time on neck, mouth, boobs, back erogenous zone on the sides above hips. All got lots of attention. Entire body with her begging me to f**k her before moving onto next foreplay each area. Tried kissing her feet and behind the bet she wasn't into that, massaged her butt an anus wasn't into that. I ate her out licking, sucking her clit piercing. I used the finger come here motion and tapped the rough patch of her g-spot, she liked these things but no fire works, she seemed to be getting frustrated so I let her take over. She returned the favor then we went in different positions, I had it go a while, using start and stop to Cunnel her again, we finished in doggy and she told me it wasn't that great, and I had a smaller penis then she was used to (she's navy so I guess marines have bigger d**ks). Anyways it kills me I can't make her cum like the other 3 and she seems to have little sensitivity to touch.
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reader, Joeshamo +, writes (2 April 2013):
Joeshamo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYea, she's more of a bro, and the main thing is she just isnt very sensative. So I've tried bitting and licking along places like the neck and sides rather than kissing, basically being much more rough with her than I have with other girls, which she likes. I guess I should have guessed she didnt have much sensativity because she has a vertical clit piercing. I'm less worried about it now that I get her, though I would like to figure out how to make her more sensative to touch, because she used to be ticklish and stuff before some stuff happened to her (shes been fighting depression because of recent family deaths), and she lost sensativity in her clit too (hence getting a piercing), and hasnt been able to make herself cum for a couple months so it be nice to help her get that back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2013): First things first - you can read as many books and watch as many videos as you like, but this won't mean she will necessarily cum for you. It's neither of your faults - appreciate that each woman is entirely different, and are all satisfied in different ways. In this sense, a 'technique' cannot actually be applicable to ALL women, because everyone is different. There is no universal law for making a woman climax. x) lolFigure out for yourself what she likes - is she creative, what does she wear, etc? Just use your common sense. If she is artistic, then she has a powerful imagination - talk dirty to her and let her imagination do the work. If she's intellectual, make some aspects of sex conditional, and make her use her intellect in order to get what she wants.If she has a variety of perfumes, she's probably something of a romanticist and will appreciate candles, music and some atmosphere. Take some interest in how to pleasure her - there's honestly nothing sexier than someone who is willing to make an effort. ;)If she's less sensitive to touch, use your nails too. Eye contact is also a massive turn-on for most women. If she's experienced, have sex in different places and shake things up.(By the way, doggystyle is highly unflattering if you're smaller - try having her on her front with her ankles crossed, then take her from behind.)
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