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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: last night i met a boy who i have mutual friends with at a club. it was a big group of us and we got off. but he was really sweet holding my hand and talking as well for most of the night. the thing is despite hinting he wanted to meet again, things got awkward at the end when we all left. as we didn't talk. the sunlight probably put him off! but i liked him and want to see him again, what should i do?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2013): You described a one night stand. It ended without exchanging any means of contact. If you met him once, you'll likely run into him again.
Don't be surprised if his reaction to the re-acquaintance isn't what you'll hope it to be. It usually isn't. In this case, you didn't talk, and you claimed it was an awkward separation. You got a hint and didn't take it?
Sometimes guys say they want to meet again, and don't really mean it. They feel obligated, so you won't feel used.
If he did, why didn't he get your digits? It was a nicer way of saying: "See you around!"
Next time, find out something about the guy before you get
intoxicated and jump into bed with him.
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