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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi Everyone so here it goes,6 Months ago I fell in love with this girl to this day I am still in love with her, I used to obsess about her and when I finally became friends with her things started to get better but then I told her I liked her she avoided eye contact smiled when I told her but when I asked her told me that I was just a good friend, ever since for whatever reason she avoids me can't stay in the same room for 5 minutes but in a week something happens and she starts giving me all the usual signs wanting my attention, smiling whenever I look at her. Then all of a sudden when i start getting into it she starts the same avoiding and not contacting with me again to the point where she won't pick up my calls or text me for a week on end.What do I do?-Much Obliged.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2013): She is craving your energy and your attention - she's probably been hurt or used in the past and doesn't know what to do.
It's the same with me, and it becomes almost a reflexive response sometimes. I really try to stifle it, but sometimes a girl who's been hurt plays games because she doesn't know what else to do. It's not always conscious. Please don't worry too much.
If I were her, I'd want you to confront me deliberately and try to resolve things, for both your happiness. If you both ignore each other, how can any issues be solved? :)
Have a lovely day. 3
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (31 March 2013):
Ignore her altogether and let her completely come to you. She likes the idea of someone to rely who is safe but she wont dare to cross that line...yeah it doesn't make sense but you have to ask yourself if this is a girl worth loving and one you can trust...I doubt that is the case. You can find someone else :)
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