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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi All, I love my friend for One year i know him, he's so shy and a very good person he is kind to everyone ,i never met a person like this . So i told him that i love him more than anyone else , he keep silent . After one month i discovered that he's falling in love with our friend :a girl that i really don't like she's different from me in all things ;style,face,character...So when i discover it i told him i will help him to make her know this :((( because i always wanna see him happy and not suffering so i went to the girl and told her about his feeling :she said to me i can't be with him it's impossible i don't like him and i don't see him like my man.He now know it , and still loves her and that hurts me a lot. I really feel so bad, and i'm getting worse day after day .Can he love me one day and appreciate what i'm doing for him?What should i do , should i stay friend with him or go away and don't talk to him any more ??Hey Please help , and any idea will be appreciated Many Thanks to All :))
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2013): If he doesn't love you now, he will never love you the way you want to be. Your feelings for him are being wasted; because he loves someone else, and you're hanging on for no reason.You are making yourself miserable by clinging to someone who doesn't have any feelings for you in return. You are getting involved in his personal life; which is none of your business.The girl just told you the cold truth, and now you want to make her a villain. Leave them alone and move on. You WILL find someone that cares for you. You just can't accept that he seems so nice, yet he doesn't care for you in a romantic sense. The rejection is killing you, and you are hopelessly infatuated. His rejection is killing your self-esteem,and you're feeling hopeless.Time isn't going to magically force him to love you, just because you're still around. You'll eventually give up; but you'll torture yourself in the process. You have much to give and you're wasting your time.Please move on and seek your happiness, and allow real love to find you. It's out there; but you're evading all possibilities by being all wrapped up in a guy who wants somebody else. There is no advice out there to make someone love you who doesn't. There is no advice to instantly change your heart. This will all happen in time. Spend more time with your best friend. Stay busy to keep yourself distracted from your feelings for this guy.You have a small obsession, and you're a slave to a mild addiction to his personality.Find a way to clear your head, and your heart will follow.
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