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Why do girls stay friends with some of their ex boyfriends but not all of their ex's?

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Question - (31 March 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2013)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why do girls stay friends with some of their ex boyfriends but other they just decide they don't want anything to do with anymore for no reason and he never did anything to deserve that?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (1 April 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI don't see a need to ever remain friends with any ex partners unless you have children with them.

IF a person (male or female) remains friends with an ex and they are my current partner I'd be suspicious. If they are merely friendly... well then that's called being an adult.

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A male reader, shelcoop United States +, writes (1 April 2013):

Sometimes it's also because of unconscious attraction. Girls will rationalize attraction as an appreciation of the person, and lack of attraction as a dislike of the person. For the sake of making their lives easier, people will excommunicate anyone they consider a liability, regardless of whether or not they did anything wrong.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (1 April 2013):

If "he" is you, then you obviously did something, you just don't know about it, otherwise you guys would be friends. Maybe you're incapable of being only friends because you want more?

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