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anonymous
writes:I know this girl for like 10 months she's a bit weird to me sometimes she's really nice eye contact and everything and then sometimes she's distant, cold etc..Sometimes when we're walking together she walks really close to me we're always bumping on each other, I actually tested her once, we were walking and she was close so I moved a little to the left and she followed me keeping the same distance, she also puts her head on my shoulder sometimes. Like I said lots of mixed signals I guess. I'm confused.Ohh and another thing she never never! starts conversations online.Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (1 May 2013):
 if she refuses with a reason that may mean she is busy that day... if she says she can't but suggests a different time or date, that's ok
if she says no without giving you indication that she's not receptive to you asking again... then no she's not interested.
but YOU are interested in her... that's enough for you to ask her OUT... it's not marriage or going steady or sex, it's a casual get to know you date... no big deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionReally you think she likes me? i dont know i just dont feel it but anyway I'm going to ask her out if she accepts she might be interested if she refuses it means she isn't right?
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (30 April 2013):
 Hi
Why not try asking her out, she sounds like she's dropped enough hints
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reader, franny1297 +, writes (30 April 2013):
 Nahh she probably likes you :) and it's not mixed signals, it's called 'playing hard to get'. Return her signals: if she makes eye contact, make eye contact with her for two seconds, smile, then casually look away.She probably just not the type of person that talks online. There's not much to say to this, return signal, be nice to her, don't be rude! Don't become to attached or obsessed with her in any way, you never know, if you fall for her, she might break your heart, and you'll be upset. Try and be her friend first, when you see her around say 'hi'.Play hard to get, just a very little, it'll be like a challenge for her, but not to much or she might get upset. For example: make eye contact with her for a few weeks, then stop the eye contact for a few days then start again. If you know what I mean. I hope this answered you question. Good luck ps. (girls can be very confusing creatures, so watch out, and all girls are different).
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