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writes: i am a 13 year old girl and i really like a teacher at school but i really do not want to feel this way because it really hurts i often dream about her i know nothing can ever happen but i do no no what to do because it is really awkward around her
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (6 September 2012):
Why does it hurt you to feel this way? Enjoy her company while you have her as a teacher. She doesn't know how you feel, so why feel awkward? Enjoy fantasizing about her...no one has to know about it but you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2012): Oooops ... Minus 1 "of people" lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2012): This is just a crush (as you're probably aware of) and crushes are just phases that pass with time. I think you should just keep in mind what you already know (that it will never lead to anything) and keep reminding yourself that these feelings are useless in this particular instance. Also try to keep busy and focused on your school work to take your mind of her.
Crushes are really very common and natural, especially for people your age, so it may be comforting for you to know that you are not the only one who will be experiencing what you are right now, there will be loads of people of people.
It will pass, you'll be ok...you'll see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2012): I feel that you are confused. Maybe you think she is attractive but how can you truly like someone when you haven't even gotten to know them in a personal level. Either way you should just try to focus on your friends and family or hobbies to keep those thoughts out of your head. You are very young and this seems you are just going through puberty and are having sexual curiosity and this is normal at your age. You will have many more crushes in your lifetime so I would just treat this as a phase.
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