Guy I've started dating said he'd hidden his on-line dating profile but I've found out that he hasn't.

A female age , *reidaA writes:

I’m 50 and been on Match for almost a year. I met quite a few guys, most of them were just a first and last time date and a couple of them lasted a few dates, but nothing serious. In mid-July I met this guy online. He is 52; he is a widow (his wife died almost a year ago). He has 3 grown children. We hit it off pretty good thru emails and finally met on August 2. It was great. We had dinner and met again the next day, went to the art gallery. We have been seeing each other every weekend since then and even a couple of times during the week (he lives about 1.5 hr from where I live, but moving very close to me in about 2 week. We’ve been texting and calling each other everyday. I decided to make my Match profile invisible and noticed that he did the same thing without me asking him. About 2 weekends ago we had a little talk and he said that he wants to take it slow as in still dating each other, but not getting physical and I was okay with it, but I brought it to his attention that I am looking for a long term relationship, that I don’t like to date around and I have hidden my profile. And he said. “Me too and I cannot juggle dating two women.” So yesterday afternoon, I just thought I log in to my Match account (after almost 4 weeks) and guess what I saw? Not only his profile was up, but he was “online now!!!” I was so upset and kept checking and he was online until 10p.m. Meanwhile I texted him a couple of times and e responded, and finally about 8:30 he called me. When he called, he logged out of his account and after we hung up he was back “online.” This morning, I was up at 5a.m. and he was “online” again. Help, please!! What am I supposed to do? I am very upset, sad, angry, concerned.

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