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writes:Ok.. There is a girl i have been friends with for 6 years and we would talk amd hang out at lunch break and stuff, and i have liked her for the past year. But i dont know where im supposed to go from here because my friend told her that i liked her and now she doesnt talk to me like she used to... I need some help please, i have never had a girlfriend or really been interested in a relationship before this...
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (6 September 2012):
 You have 2 options now she knows that you like her:
1. Apologise for what your friend said and tell her that you dont want it to ruin your friendship, and can she ignore what he said so you can go back to being friends like before.
2. Tell her exactly how you feel, tell her how much you like her and ask her out on a date.
Option 1 might work because she will be relieved that you just want to be friends, although she might alawys be wary of you because she knows you like her. But at least you will still be friends and nothing will have changed.
Option 2 is risky, but you never know she might just be shy and she might actually feel the same. But if she says no, and she doesnt feel the same, well you are never going to be able to be friends again I'm afraid.
Try not to worry too much about this, yes you like her and she is your friend but there will be many other girls that come along in the future so look at this like a test, or practice - if she says yes when you ask her out great, but if not well its an experience and you will learn for next time to make sure your friends dont go around telling your female friends you fancy them!
Good luck!
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