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anonymous
writes:Before college ended for the summer I met someone and we were dating for about a week and it was really good, but we've been unable to meet because of distance. Anyway, we've texted a bit, but she seems to have lost interest in me, she says because of distance etc.We'll be seeing each other next week because college starts again, but she said last month that she doesn't know if things will be the same. But I don't get this.. nothing will have changed, will it?I really want to start a relationship with her but not sure if she's prepared to give it a chance. I don't expect to just see her and act like we're a couple.. obviously we should take things slowly. I'm just wondering if she thought that that's what I expected.So, how should I act around her, I don't know what she's expecting, if anything.
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reader, HardToExplain +, writes (8 September 2012):
 Well considering you've only been texting and not like actually talking to each other or meeting up or anything she's bound to have lost some kind of interest. The reason she's lost interest is probably because of the lack of interaction between the two of you, and the interaction is an effort between two people so don't blame it on yourself, she should've been making an effort to talk too!
When you meet up next you really should talk things over and establish things, maybe talk about why she might not be prepared for a relationship as much as you are, etc etc. You can't just talk about these things over text, you need proper communication, okay? Don't be afraid to show her your true feelings! Hope everything works out for you x
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