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writes:A guy I know we used to be in the same university but then I took a transfer..he used to have a massive crush on me,but I didnt respond back..A few weeks ago he indirectly asked if we could have a physical relationship without really being in a relationship..he dint directly ask me to be a fuck buddy or friends with benefits but indirectly hinted at what he wants..I was shocked,disgusted..I told him what kind of a girl you think I am,I would never ever agree to such a thing..and then he's like well even if you do tell, we don't have common friends, and please tell me what you want, and don't give me hopes..I just stopped replying to him..Now whenever he meets other friends of mine at a club he tells them he used to have a crush on me, we were good friends and all that bullshit, and he even told this friend of mine please do tell her you met me..wtf?? what is wrong with this man?? I just ignored him well prior to this incident I saw him at the mall and he smiled and waved I smiled back I dint know he goes about telling my friends this!!he such a loser?what do I do!?
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reader, Genevieve +, writes (6 September 2012):
I think that he obviously thinks your the ^^^t! He is telling people that he had a crush on you to show that he knows you and that maybe without directly saying anything by telling these people that you were close and he had a crush on you people will just assume that you were sleeping together! He is just trying to get in with the cool crowd by barging about a hot chick (which in his mind he thinks he could of had) like most boys do.Personally I would just let it be .... It's flattering having a guy hold you in that standard. But of course on the other hand it he gets worse and your character and integrity and begging to be affected you need to confront him and tell him to stop
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (6 September 2012):
 He is hoping to push you to be interested. Just keep ignoring him and tell your friends to do likewise (unless they are his friends too).
Apparently he didn't seem to understand your NO.
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