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writes:I met a guy online and we've been out on three dates. But he hasn't really tried to kiss me so I'm finding it hard to decide if he's even all that into me. We've held hands the during the last two dates but that has been the extent of the touching. Usually we just say bye and walk our separate ways and that would be the end of it. No hug, no kiss. Nothing Our last date was Sunday and we haven't made any future plans to see one another. But he has been texting me consistently. We're both in our 20's, he's a few years older than me. I will admit I'm on the shy side so I'm waiting for him to make a move and take the initiative. But he hasn't. What do you guys think of the situation? What should I do?
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (6 September 2012):
 Well if he's texting you a lot and been holding your hand, i would suggest he's just shy. Maybe you're his first relationship and he's not sure what to do?
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (6 September 2012):
 He may have gotten his heart broken too much and is taking it really slow. Whatever the reason, I think you probably at least need to let him know that you really like him if you do.
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reader, katiekate +, writes (6 September 2012):
 My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. We met online as well... I could tell he was "into" me, but he didn't make a move first. On our 5th date, I asked him, "So why haven't you kissed me yet?" Turns out, he just likes for the woman to make the first move... So maybe your guy is the same way? If you want to kiss him next time, just go for it. If he's staying in contact with you and all signs point to the fact that he is interested, I say go ahead and make the first move. Good luck!
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 September 2012):
 It depends on the content of the texts and how conservative he is. Underneath a conservative person can be a very passionate lover. I still believe there should be magic and butterflies when on a date. You don't have to initiate physical contact, but maybe you can hint your desires without sounding obvious? Try subtle flirting, or joking, which can break the ice and bring you closer together. Try talking about subjects that would lead to passion.
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