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41-50,
*oveIsSweet
writes:This is the situation..I've know this guy since we were like 6 years old and you can say he was my childhood love but we never actually dated but the feelings were mutual and we just never got into a relationship with each other but I knew he had feelings for me and I for him and I still do. I mean childhood love as in, we lived right next door to each other...almost like a brother to me.As the years went by we both had our own lives and whenever I would come home, I used to see him or hangout with him sometimes, but still no words were exchanged. We both couldn't deny the feelings but nothing never aspired. HERE is the problem..he has a younger brother and we both left home and we both had common interest..like being in the military. So having a friend from home was a plus for me. I visited him, emailed him and talked to him on the phone every blue moon. I Eventually I had sex with him, but only once and for about two minutes haha It always bothered me because I feel like it was the wrong brother. That has been over 10 year ago but I still see the one I actually still have feelings for. I saw him recently and I finally told him how I felt and he said he still had feelings for me but he said he know about the situation between me and his brother. I figured he that but we actually spent the entire weekend together and we still had good chemistry, we still laughed, talked and it just felt good but when it got to the sex part, he was a nervous wreck.The first two nights he was so nervous that I said dont worry about it, so he just layed his head on my chest and we fell asleep. The 2nd night, he held me all night and we just fell asleep again. Well by the 3rd night, I just took control and it was a GREAT 3 minutes. He was still nervous and I just couldnt believe it. I guess my question would be, do anyone thinks that we can be in a relationship? He said he wants to see me more and I agree.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave  +, writes (6 September 2012):
I back TasteofIndia on this one
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 September 2012):
 I don't see why not... it doesn't seem to bother him or you. You both want to be something more. I see potential for messiness, depending on the classiness and maturity of his brother. But, there's no need to give up on something that both you and this guy want!
If it ends up getting messy, cross that bridge when you come to it. Good luck!
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