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Am I in love with my current boyfriend, my ex, or in just in love with being in love

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Question - (8 November 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 November 2012)
A age 26-29, * writes:

im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend (age 20). in the past he's had girls send him photos in undergarment. i've confronted him about knowing ,he apologized. several months later i brokeup with him and im not quite sure why, but during the month we spent apart i didn't really miss him until my ex and i stopped speaking" we had a fling going on " .i got back with my boyfriend (20) and now 8 months later im talking with my ex AGAIN. im stuck . i love my boyfriend for the simple fact i can just lay down with him and have nothing sexual happen, his parents love me and i think after losing my virginity with him i can't see myself having sex with anyone else but him. BUT the spark we once had i no longer feel after almost 2 years. i can't imagine not being with him though i feel as if i would be empty.

with my ex though i get these butterflies and his hugs make me warm. we've been speaking on and off for about 3 years. last year we were so close to making it official until he tried to make me give him head . it turned me off completely and i a began to avoid him , i felt as if he only waanted me for sex. he claims he doesnt. but in the past when we hung out we would just make out.never just simply hang out. i dont know if im in love with my current boyfriend or if im in love with my ex or in love with the fact of being in love

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2012):

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i dont think so, this one here is my post

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2012):

Is this the same poster to the question? -

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/the-boyfriend-or-the-ex-which-one-do.html

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