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writes:My boyfriend and I are both close to being 18 and have been dating for 1 year in a few days. I have given him multiple hand and blow jobs and will never let me finish. I completey love him and nothing would ever change that so im confused why he wouldnt want me to "finish the job" it kinda makes me feel lik Icant truely make him happy. help??
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (9 November 2012):
 Thats probably a respect thing. He may find finishing would demean u in some way. If i were i u id whisper something dirty in his mouth about finishing n if he objects talk about it. Take some initiative but if he doesnt like it talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2012): He may find it unnecessarily messy or he may see it as a mark of disrespect to you to cum in your mouth or all over your hand etc.
Instead of asking him, just tell him you want to make him cum. If he refuses then ask him. But telling him you want him to cum in your mouth will be far sexier sounding OP he'll more than likely "oblige" you, especially if it's a respect issue, if it's something he thinks you want he'll be far more comfortable doing it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2012): When my boyfriend and I got together at 17 he was the same - he would never let me 'finish' him. When I asked why, he said he was a bit embarrassed and didn't want to get me messy. Maybe yours is the same? Just sit down and ask him :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2012): He might just need a different sensation to make him climax or it might take him a long time. Maybe he doesn't want to make a mess or only does it in the shower, who knows. Did you try asking him why?
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