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writes:i am 21, a single mother of a beautiful baby girl... the thing is that is started dating my co worker when i was carrying my baby, to start off with things went well, we were unseperable and the relationship was full of majic, and we would be good at work and outside of work, we got on really well annywhere untill i confided in somone who i thaught was my friend and things got really bad, she betrayed me i feel the need to talk, and cant keep my big moth shut, and they always betray me,and tell him what i have said now things have gotten worse and i feel that things are gettung worse between us,he said he never wanted to talk to me and then has told me that he still loves me as i do him, but lots of things are getting back to him and it is making him angry and he has stopped talking to me again, how on earth do i fix things so that all will be well between us, and so that i could get the magic back that we used to have, and how do i get him to talk
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfor your information, we are engaged and babys daddy pissed off right at the beginging of the pregnancy , and my fiancee has offered to take on resposabillity of my daughter !!!!!
i love this man and he loves me, and yes my daughter is always the first thaught and she does have all of my dedicated time, thats why i work for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2012): "i am 21, a single mother of a beautiful baby girl... "To whom you should be devoting every moment spent outside work. "we were unseperable and the relationship was full of majic"Sorry, but sounds like an unhealthy dependency and unrealistic fantasyland expectations. "how on earth do i fix things so that all will be well between us, and so that i could get the magic back that we used to have, and how do i get him to talk"You can't "fix things" so that "all will be well," you can't get imaginary "magic" back and you can't "get him" to do anything he is not otherwise inclined to do. You mention your infant daughter only as an afterthought, and you mention baby daddy not at all. You need to return to Planet Earth for your daughter's sake; if there's amy possibility that baby daddy can be an active involved presence in his daughter's life, that's the "magic" you should be trying to "get back," and if not you need to hold baby daddy financially responsible for his random spontaneous breeding by supporting his kid (not you, his kid).
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