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writes:My friend started dating a girl at the beginning of the relationship they both agreed to wait until they have sex. However, the girl did a 180 and had sex with a lot of other guys behind his back while seemingly being chaste. I want to know why someone would do this and what logic do they follow in coming to their decision? I have never done anything with a girl and hearing things like this makes me paranoid. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): Don't overthink the whole thing. A girl like that is just dishonest and unfaithful. She wants to be treated like a chaste & faithful girl without making the sacrifices it takes to be that.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (26 November 2012):
 Sometimes, girls get that special "itch".... and can't resist having it scratched.... It's just a "fact of life."
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): Perhaps she thinks if she has sex with her boyfriend/husband to be before marriage, it will be a sin, but to have sex with someone outside the relationship, its deemed ok.
Sex is sex whoever its with, so if her religion is against sex before marriage, she's sinned right off the mark.
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reader, olderthandirt +, writes (26 November 2012):
 Seems to me this is more about control than sex. She wants total control not just a little control. Many people in this life are controling and manipulative. They simply MUST have their way. Those people need to be avoided at all cost lest they ruin the lives of those around them. Steer a clear path from this one my friend as she is on the road to destruction and will gladly take as many with her as she can. There is no answer to "why" It is what it is and good to recognize it as a failed human being and warn others.
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