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male
age
26-29,
*hykid
writes:I met a girl during my class and she is not that beautiful but I'm very attracted to her. Whenever I see her outside the class, we talked only about the subject we're both in. We always exchanged smiles and teases but now we do not talk anymore. It started when my classmates started teasing me that I like her. And also that day she gave me her number but only due to the assignment we're supposed to do. It's like the atmosphere between us became awkward. what am I suppose to do make her like me and put away the awkwardness and return the past atmosphere?
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reader, mondragon  +, writes (26 November 2012):
Being a "good guy" around women will only ger you about a 35% chance atmost to get her vs being the "bad boy" while still being the good guy will most probably be your key to getting this chick. You gettin what I'm sayin?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (26 November 2012):
 It's early days and ignore your classmates who are making mischief by teasing you, and probably her as well.
If you want her to like you then play a waiting game.
Do not show interest in another girl.
Do remain a gentleman at all times in her company.
Never be a 'show off'
Remain courteous around her.
Be helpful if she speaks to you but don't be too 'full-on'.
Try not to be loud nor rude to others.
In a word you are starting to charm her with what a nice guy you are.
If you see her in passing and there are not a lot of other students around at the time then DO give her a nice smile.
BELIEVE that eventually you will win her.
BELIEVE that there is a chance for you and her to reconnect again.
When the teasing classmates have finished being childish and you can see her starting to be less awkward around you then make a move.
So if you see her sitting eating her lunch ask her if you can join her.
Ask her about what hobbies she enjoys.
Ask her to tell you about her favourite film
Just slowly work on getting to know her better as a friend.
It takes time and patience to win over a girl.
You will see more brash types rush in, make some flattering insincere remarks and easily charm girls with their flirting. But guys such as this are often insincere. They get the girl short term, but often discard her as they cannot keep up the charade of lies.
Whereas slowly building up rapport, demonstrating by your ACTIONS not your WORDS what an Honourable guy you are is a good way to build a really good guy you are and that you are indeed worthy of the young lady's attention and consideration.
It may come to something in the future, or it may not. Teenage crushes often lead to nowhere. While other times teenage crushes turn to love and more in the future.
My Best Wishes to you.
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reader, mondragon +, writes (26 November 2012):
are you sure that you're not the only one who thinks that the atmosphere between the two of you has become awkward? well i think the best course of action is be the first one to strike a conversation and remember to just keep it casual, eventually that awkward feeling will go away after sometime.
-hope this helps
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