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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I noticed that my boyfriend calls one of his female friends crazy names, its on texts - she has a boyfriend and they are all friends too. He calls he things like 'gizz guzzler' 'rug muncher' and i cant even remember what else i saw. She calls him some name, but doesnt make sense, doesnt sound sexual. He had cancelled a party and she asked why, he said yeah not enough people were around and said but he spent the night naked. (he was with me on said night) and wrote some other day to day stuff. she said 'thanks for that image' and continued on with the day to day talk. he responded you know you love it and continued on. They dont text eachother a lot, but they are good friends for a long time. im just wondering if its disrespectful, if this is friendly. I know this because i saw a text come in from her and he pulled his phone out of my view, and he doesn't normally do that. so yes when he left the room i took a peek. naughty i know. but i felt uneasy about something.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (13 May 2012):
 These texts he sends to this girl , to me sounds friendly.
Sometimes friends of mine call me crazy names; and vice versa in msgs; it suggests friendship/connection/bond.
Of course if you find anything sexy then of course be worried; but in this case I think you dont have anything to worry about.
Maybe he pulled his phone away because he expects you to trust him?
It sounds like trust is an issue here not his texting.
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