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I need some advice on sex!

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Question - (13 May 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2012)
A female Guyana age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am 15 and my boyfriend of almost three years is 16. We're in a Long distance relationship, but we're doing pretty well..very much in love :)

By the time he comes back for vacation I'd be 16 and he'd be 17(same birthday), he's a great boyfriend and I really think we should have sex. No,he does not pressure me into anything, we do other [sexual] things and at my will, just never had vaginal intercourse.

We both do well in school-top of our classes, our parents never had any real trouble with us. I'm far from stupid, so don't go thinking I'm some little immature girl with no brain, I've thought about this and if I'm able get birth control(pills) and he gets some condoms, I really want to do it this summer.

What do you think? What can go wrong?

I also heard that when a boy has sex once he needs it all the time, if this is true, it's a big problem because we don't see each other all the time.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012):

Dont do it save it for someone you think will be more special. Im not saying your too young. Im just saying he wont be there forever. Thats a promise.

sincerly the anonymous human

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2012):

since you asked for advice, what i'll say is - girl don't do it. i understand you guys are in love and you feel that it's the "right time", but really, 15 is too young. it may seem as if you guys are perfect and mature enough for this, but just look at the posts on this site!

nearly everyday there's a teen mom wondering about how she's going to raise her kids because her ex-bf dumped her after she got pregnant, condoms breaking, the pill not working. i strongly suggest that you wait till you guys are at least legal to start doing the deed? i don't know what's the legal age in your country, but 18 and above should be a safer age...

don't feel that sex is something that you have to do with your boyfriend just cos you guys have been together for quite some time. give it abit more time, when you're older and wiser, the sexual experience will be even more rewarding :)

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