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writes:My boyfriend he lives in a different state to my family. But the Twist is me and him agreed on living in another state with his family. I want to don't get me wrong. But the thing is where i NOW is in another state. But my mom and dad , brother - all of them and I dont get along very well. my mom and dad , i got into a physical fight were i let them hit me. I called the police but they said they couldn't do anything about it. when they started the whole thing. my mom took my cellphone away which i pay for. She doesn't like the fact that i am leaving the house and i am 19 yrs old and i am graduating soon, but to me it my decison on where to move.i am still going to talk them. but the problem she's going to find a way to call the police and bring me back to the hell hole of house. But my boyfriend wants me to have a baby at the age of 19 yrs old and he is 23 and nearly 24 and my problem is i have anxiety and depression and ts. To be honest i tell him i am Physically and emotionally not ready to have a baby. i tell him that constanly and he says please baby. i say no again and again. i Suffer from TOURETTE'S is goes to generation to generation. i got that problem when i was 2 yrs old. he needs to understand that our kid is going to have ts and she or he is going to have it. when was i two it was pretty bad tic for me i have movement and vocal tics and i got teased a lot. and if i have to i will take our kid out of school. beause i wont put up with it. I PROMISE myself and I told him this. I will never ever in my life be like my parents. He wants two children. To be honest i dont do good with pain or needles i think the last time they had to hold me down. i am dealy afraid of needles. u have no idea. Ps advice plzzzz. Reply to this Question
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reader, breannetopley18 +, writes (19 May 2012):
breannetopley18 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey everyone my name us Bre. And I am a senior this year. I am 19 yrs old.
How do u tell ur family that u want to leave home. My mom doesn't like the fact that I am going to live with my BF in connecticut. We have been friends since 7th grade and we made it official in 11th grade to be BF & GF. but the reason I want to move is bc me and my family don't get along. Me and my mom would get into these phsyical beating fight. And I called the police and they said we couldn't do any thing bout it. So of course I let them beat me up. Me and my dad hate each. My brother call me mean horrible words. My brother is the baby of the family so he pretty much gets away with everything. And I have no freedom in this house what so ever. I asked my mom do u care if I leave she said no. I said to her ur not going to open ur big mouth r u. She said no but I dout it. My BF is 23 he will be 24 June, 1. So there is a age a little age diffence. But not much. I love him so much. But the thing is I have Tourette Syndrome, Anxeity, depression. And I do take medicine for the Anxiety & Depression. So I have to find a doctor and therapist in connecticut. But the other thing is my BF wants a baby after I move in I told him I am only 19 yrs old. And I also said I am phsycial & emotionally not stable to have a baby I told him I never want kids which I probely should have never said that. And I dud say srry to him. I told him not right now. He said ok.
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reader, breannetopley18 +, writes (15 May 2012):
breannetopley18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question[Mod note: it appears the OP has resubmitted the question as an answer in hopes of attracting some replies to her query.]My boyfriend he lives in a different state to my family. But the Twist is me and him agreed on living in another state with his family. I want to don't get me wrong. But the thing is where i NOW is in another state.But my mom and dad , brother - all of them and I dont get along very well. my mom and dad , i got into a physical fight were i let them hit me.I called the police but they said they couldn't do anything about it. when they started the whole thing.my mom took my cellphone away which i pay for. She doesn't like the fact that i am leaving the house and i am 19 yrs old and i am graduating soon, but to me it my decison on where to move.i am still going to talk them. but the problem she's going to find a way to call the police and bring me back to the hell hole of house.But my boyfriend wants me to have a baby at the age of 19 yrs old and he is 23 and nearly 24 and my problem is i have anxiety and depression and ts.To be honest i tell him i am Physically and emotionally not ready to have a baby. i tell him that constanly and he says please baby. i say no again and again.i Suffer from TOURETTE'S is goes to generation to generation. i got that problem when i was 2 yrs old.he needs to understand that our kid is going to have ts and she or he is going to have it.when was i two it was pretty bad tic for me i have movement and vocal tics and i got teased a lot. and if i have to i will take our kid out of school. beause i wont put up with it. I PROMISE myself and I told him this. I will never ever in my life be like my parents. He wants two children.To be honest i dont do good with pain or needles i think the last time they had to hold me down. i am dealy afraid of needles. u have no idea.Ps advice plzzzz
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