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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for four and a half years and we have a 2 year old child together. Last week I was at a friends house and there were a lot of people and a lot of alcohol involved ( I'm not using this as an excuse ). Anyways as the night went on I got talking to this guy and he tried to kiss me, I told him that I was sorry if I gave the wrong impression but I wasn't interested. Later on when I was leaving he walked me home and he tried again but this time I did not stop him. He showed me so much attention and told me I should be with him as he would treat me right. I love my boyfriend so much but he is violent and verbally abusive towards me at times. It's not that I want to leave him for this guy, I wouldn't do that, but I feel so bad that I am physically sick for cheating on him. I can't tell him as I know he would leave me but I need to know if I can forgive myself. How do I do it? Should I just not say anything and leave him and move on? please help I am crying all the time :(
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (14 May 2012):
 darling girl,
Yes you need to move on. Your boyfriend sounds terrible, he beats you and is verbally abusive to you and you have a child together? Staying will only damage yourself further and your child.
You need to do what is right for not only you but your little one. It maybe scary and hard and at the moment you may not feel like you can do anything about it, however with support from family and counselling you will be able to.
I would not suggest you beat yourself up anymore. What happend is natrual for someone in your situation. I think your problems run a lot deeper than this little kiss. Don't see this boy again and ensure that you get some help. Things will start to make sense again soon
Take carea and good luck
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