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30-35,
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writes:ok so im going through a really tough time right now with my girlfriend. we have been dating for about a year and a half now and we have been talking about moving out and everything together. For about the last 4 months now though it doesnt even seem like she is attracted to me anymore. We use to have sex everyday if not more and now it has just stopped, i try and always just get shut down, she doesnt even like it when i try and hold her hand and everytime i go to kiss her she will just turn her cheek. All this started as soon as she got her own dog and started her own dog rescue. We never have time with just us anymore because her dogs are always with us or im stuck driving her around to do rescue things cause she doesnt have a liscence. I have tried talking to her about but she always just gets upset and says im just trying to make her feel bad. She does have alot of stress in her life but that has never stopped us before, i just wanna feel like a priority in her life again instead of a shadow. Im starting to feel like im not even a boyfriend anymore. Does anyone have any tips for me on how i might beable to make her start paying attention and showing affection to me again??? Reply to this Question
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reader, tinkxxx1  +, writes (14 May 2012):
you shouldn't have to be given tips to make her show you attention again, the problem is obviously something of hers, something in her head thats making her act the way she is, What you need to think is how would she react if this was you doing it her, i no you say youve tried to talk to her about it, but she needs to understanding what ever it is bothering her , its hurting you too sit her down and say this just isnt fair. as 1)if its something youve done you need to no2) in relationships you confide in each other and something is wrong personaly you can work together to make it work. Just remember your feelings matter too :) x
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