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I've given him three chances, now he's saying he'll stop! What should I do?

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Question - (10 May 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2012)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i was dating a guy from the last 4 years. Around 6 months back i got to know that he was cheating on me and when i confronted him he said sorry and asked me to give one chance and i gave him another chance. And,after 2 months again i got to know that he's cheating me and again he said sorry and asked for another chance. And,again after 3months he did the same thing and again promised that he wont do it again. I am really pissed and i am not able to trust him. He is saying that he has left everything. Please tell me what should i do???

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A female reader, Foot-In-My-Mouth India +, writes (10 May 2012):

Foot-In-My-Mouth agony auntHe doesn't deserve your love. He deserves nothing but contempt. Leave him and spare yourself a lifetime of agony and heartbreak.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2012):

Hey there, you have given him 2 chances too many. To cheat for the first time shame on him, to cheat the second time shame on you. Dont get stuck on a merry go round of him cheating and you always forgiving. He will never learn that his way is the wrong way because you are not strong enough in your heart to say good bye to him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2012):

Dump the chump.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (10 May 2012):

Tisha-1 agony auntHe's had three chances and blew them all. I would dump him right away. The sooner you get away from the lying cheater, the sooner you can find a decent guy who won't be a player.

Good luck!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (10 May 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntthree strikes and your out... DUMP HIM.

He knows you will keep forgiving him.. so he will keep cheating and begging for one more last chance.

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