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If a girl dry humps a male virgin, does it mean she has taken his virginity?

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Question - (10 May 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2012)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello. I'm nervous on asking about this, on here. But, I guess my question is appropriate, to ask on here.

When a girl dry humps a guy, does it mean he can no longer say he's a virgin? Like, for example, does it mean he's had sex, and, as a result, he can't say "I'm a virgin!" ? Or, does it mean he's just been dry humped? For example, a girl dry humps the guy for half an hour (Ok, that's exaggerated. But, you get the point), what does it mean, for his virginity?

What I define as virginity is:

-Never had sex.

-Never had been penetrated, even through clothes.

Me, I MEET the 2 criterias. I'm just asking as a general question, so, in case a girl dry humps me. Thanks, in advance.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012):

Well, if someone dry humps, technically, wouldn't it count? Like, I think it should, technically, as in a way, it does enter the vagina.

Or, would it count, if they only had underwear on?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2012):

No a penis has to enter the vagina before you have lost your virginity

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A male reader, Tom Obler  United Kingdom +, writes (11 May 2012):

Tom Obler  agony auntHi,

For a guy, he loses his virginity when he enters/penetrates a lady. (not wishing to be too graphic) His male organ inside hers.

Thanks.

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A male reader, xgod United States +, writes (11 May 2012):

xgod agony auntLoss of Virginity is the act of a penis entering the cusp of a vagina.

If no penetration of the vagina occurs, then the persons involved can still be considered virgins in physicality, if not mentally.

Virginity is more of an issue for women due to the hymen being present or not. However, lack of a hymen can be the result of physical stress, strain, or habitual riding of a bicycle or horse or even use of Tampons instead of Maxi Pads. Some are born without a full hymen as well, or a partial hymen.

For men, virginity is the physical entrance of his penis into the vaginal opening between a woman's legs.

Certainly, all of this is likewise applicable for rear-entry sex, which is dangerous and must be avoided or exercised with caution to avoid causing an embolism for the receiver, which could cause a hemorrhage or severe injury.

Dry humping through clothing is safe and does not cause loss of virginity unless the layers of clothing are so thin that the tip of the penis is able to penetrate the vaginal opening.

Dry humping while nude can easily lead to actual intercourse, so be careful.

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A female reader, Shadow Rose United States +, writes (11 May 2012):

Shadow Rose agony auntDry humping doesn't count as losing your virginity. If it did mean that, then every teenager that has ever danced on a dance floor is no longer a virgin.

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