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*ackint0sh10.7
writes:Hi. I am 15, a freshman in a private high school. I like this one girl, a junior, who's 16, and she doesn't like me, for one reason or another. I have never had a girlfriend, and that's because I've never had the guts to ask a girl out. How should I go about this (asking her out) or should I just forget about her and move on? Oh, and another thing: this is my last year at the school, and I'll probably never see her again, unless I become her boyfriend before school ends (16 days). I'm really good friends with her brother, but he doesn't know that I like her. I'm stuck with this problem, and don't know what to do! Please help! Thanks in advance! -Hackint0sh10.7
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 May 2012):
 if you know she does not like you, then you should not ask her out...
and also she's your friend's sister... it could be awkward when you see her brother if you ask her out and she says no.
I think it's best with this particular young lady that you move on.
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reader, _crystalxo  +, writes (10 May 2012):
If you are really good friends with her brother , maybe you can speak with him to see what she likes and maybe even tell him how you feel about her. Be friends with her, that may be easier for you to move in ! Good luck
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (10 May 2012):
 But if you already know for sure she does not like you , why do you want to ask her out ?
It's good that you are overcoming shyness / awkwardness/ fear of rejection, and want to start asking girls out. And it's true that in these matters the only right attitude, if you get shot down, is don't loose confidence and say " Their loss , not mine ". But, this is your first time asking out a girl and you want to start with one who does NOT like you and most probably will turn you down ? You need to start school from elementary school, not college- find an easier ,more approachable target .
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