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writes:i found out that my boyfriend is cheating i was so dissapointed i toungt that he was going to marry me i didnt confront him i just dont knw what to do please help Reply to this Question
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reader, JessicaStarDust  +, writes (10 May 2012):
 As much as it hurts be happy that you discovered this before you got married. You should honestly leave him. If he will do this once to you he will do it again. He kept it secret from you for how long? If you do NOT leave, I'm sure he will find a way to hurt to just this measure. You have no trust now after finding out about this. How can you think you will trust him at work, while your asleep,etc. Also, if you do leave him. Give yourself a couple of days with Ben and Jerry [mod note: this is a brand of ice cream] --best men ever and watch movies. After that tho, do not continue do something different. Change your (house/apt/room) up, redecorate. Give yourself a make over as well. (Always helped me) go out to the town and enjoy yourself. Don't think about him. just have fun with yourself and friends. You will feel better.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 May 2012):
 What a horrible situation you have found yourself in, it really is heart breaking when someone finds out that the love of their life has been cheating on them. I think there is only one good thing to do here and that is to tell him what you know and leave him, yes it will be hard for you, but you deserve so much more, you deserve to be with someone who will not disrespect you in this way. Tell him it is over and he cannot treat you like this and then give yourself some time being single to get over this. Good luck.
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reader, Read-the-signs  +, writes (10 May 2012):
Lucky escape! You discovered he was cheating before you married him, and that should be a relief to you.
Move on to find a more compatible partner, and don't look back.
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