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writes:Hi all. I have been in a relationship with a guy, things are going well between us but the problem is, some of his frnds think im unfriendly. What can i do to prove them wrong and make them like me? What can i also do to improve my relationship with the guy? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontanx guys
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reader, malletchick76  +, writes (4 March 2012):
 Did you ask your boyfriend exactly what his friends told you? Because I'll bet that you are very successful and threaten them because you're taking their bro away. Or perhaps you dish out the sarcasm and casual bantering like they do, and they don't like it when they receive it. It could be a number of things. Next time you all hang out, pay attention to what they say to you and how they respond. Don't worry too much about it. Like I said, if a woman is successful, she is construed as a ball buster. So don't take it personally, you're just too awesome!
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (4 March 2012):
 You just need to let his friends get to know you, make sure you are nice with them and try and make conversation and in time they will like you for who you are.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (4 March 2012):
 Hi,
I am sorry to hear of your little dilemma and I am going to tell you something very important.
You are in a relationship with HIM..not his friends. I believe that honest communication is the best way to go. Ask him his opinion of your interaction with his friends. If he is cool with it...then sod them! You dont need to prove anything to anyone, you're fabulous just the way you are.
Your priority is your guy, if he is okay with stuff...then great...his friends will come around....what's happening is that you just took some slots of their time as a girlfriend usually does...so they are a little sore about it.
It'll sort itself out love.
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