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writes:Ok this is a really stupid story and a really stupid question but I need to know. How can you tell if a guys gay without asking???Normally I already know since 90% of the fellas I fancy are Gay or turn out to be gay. But One of my friends friends is a really nice guy and my friend is gay and I was really attracted to his friend and C turned around and said " I think he's gay" and knowing me he probably was. But then a few months later C told me he didnt think he was gay. C asked him and he said no but C isn't convinced. I really don't know if he is or isnt. I know it's really stupid but how can I find out if he's gay??? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (4 March 2012):
 I suggest that you go to Radio Shack and get one of their "gaydar" units.... (It's sort of like a GPS unit....)
It takes a couple of AA batteries, and you start it, and point it at a man or woman, and it will tell you if that person is GAY....
Hope this helps.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2012): You can't. Some guys are feminine but straight, some are gay but straight acting, some are gay but still dating girls, some are bisexual, some don't even know themselves.
Like how would I know you're not a lesbian without asking? I mean I could ask and you could say you're not and still actually be a lesbian. I have one friend that is very feminine but has never dated a guy, only girls, everyone I know is fully sure he is gay though because one of his exes was "nice" enough to let it slip that in their entire relationship she wasn't able to make him cum, not once, he never once came during sexual activity with her and always had to finish himself off.
One thing I have learned to trust though is gay guys themselves. They usually have a good sense for knowing whether other guys are gay. I'm not really a believer in 'Gaydar' but the gay guys I know have pretty keen senses when it comes to men being gay and are rarely wrong.
Anyway I think your question is wholly irrelevant. What difference does it make if he's gay or not? I mean if you like him then just start getting to know him. If there's a bit of a spark and he likes you then surely he'll ask you out.
So it really doesn't matter what his sexuality is too much. The best way of finding out is by getting to know him. Just think of the gay question like any other of your relationship conditions like. Like I wouldn't date a cheater but it's not something I'm going to ask straight out is it? I'm not going to ask if a girl has ever been a prostitute or other such thing that would mean I can't date her, I wouldn't ask her if she's a lesbian either because she'd tell me she was soon as I tried it on/asked her out.
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