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writes:What would you do if you really like a guy and are so attracted to him. You have been on a few dates. He doesn't call you or text you often..just once in a while and you see him once a week or once every 2 weeks. How would you act towards him to still feel like you have the upper hand and have not lost all control. I mean I am really attracted to him. How would you act on your date not to lose our cool?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe thing is I don't like playing these games. Usually when it works with a guy it's when we don't play games and we both want to have a relationship. I noticed this guy started to pull away as soon as I showed interest in him. Now it is hard to go back to where I was. I mean should I act really dry on our dates or should I act friendly? Honestly I am very pissed off. I myseld don't want a relationship unless I get to know the person really well. SO he doesn't need to play these games. I would not be clingy or needy or anything. I just want him to be norma and me to be normal and we can see if we like each other. Another scneario is, may be he just doesn't like me? Because if he is playing these games, I am not good at them to be able to pull back and play a game with him too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2012): Personally I would just tell him IF you want love because thats what love is all about its about becoming Equals trying to have the better hand is telling me that you want to have the tactical advantage but you can never be in love with someone if you consider them an adversary
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2012): i would honestly act like it doesnt even bother me, dont tex or call him either make him come to you.
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