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30-35,
anonymous
writes:my ex and i broke up about 8 months ago. it was fairly mutual, but my heart was definitely broken. we started out as good friends, and then he asked me out (i was shocked), and i grew to love him dearly. after our break up, we did want to stay friends, so after about 2 months of basically no contact, we hung out a few times at the end of the summer before i left for uni. it was in a group each time, but it was nice to be at least friendly. we started to talk a little more too which was good.then a few weeks later, while i was at school, i started to like someone else. i thought since my ex and i were over each other i could ask him about it. so i did. he got rather angry, and we didnt really talk for months after that. it was awful... i also ended up not talking to "that guy" really ever again, lol.then came winter holidays. we hung out a like once or twice at the beginning and talked a little more, which was good. then at the end of break, we hung out a bunch of times, started talking almost every night, and when we hung out, we were inseparable. it was great, just like old times.then after holiday, things got more intense, somehow. from the first day of my second semester up until spring holiday (roughly 45 days) we talked 40 days, and he initiated contact for about 33 of those times. we usually talk online, and sometimes when i wasnt online, he would text me at weird hours of the night about random things (obviously looking for ways to talk to me). he also started to hang with my best friend more - and according to her, he asks about me a lot of the time. he even has been a lot nicer to me, and been a good listener. he even changed his twitter picture to an old pic with me in it. he also wants to hang out and do things more with me. this all just seems kind of weird. i am SOOO glad we are friends again, but does it seem that he may like me again? thanks x
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reader, Starlights +, writes (3 March 2012):
 It sound like he has feelings for you and is not over you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 March 2012):
 It does sound to me like he never truly got over you. It might not mean that he wants to get in a relationship with you but it sure does mean that he wants you in his life. It can be hard to tell from reading your side of events what exactly it is he wants. But it is always best just to be honest with him and ask him what it is he wants? Also be honest with yourself and ask yourself what you want? Do you want to get back together with him, and could you realistically see it working out for both of you. You need to talk to him about it, as he is the only one that has the answers.
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