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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: Okay so let me explain my Dilemma; I never used to feel particularly pretty actually I think I'm quite terrible looking, but somehow I managed to get a boyfriend; He's everything I've ever wanted in a guy and more he has some flaws but they just make him more attractive to me. For the Sake of this story I will call him Alex. So,I was going out with Alex and all was going well. But Alex has a bestfriend who also happens to be my bestfriend. For the sake of this story I shall call him Nick. Nick is like my soulmate. So while me and Alex where going out Nick told me he was in love me but I said I'm with Alex and I would never cheat on someone like that and he said he never wanted me to cheat he just wanted me to know because it was hard for him to see me and alex together all the time, I said I got it and then he started like pushing me and alex away and I felt really bad and I was really hurt that he could just push me away like that without a second thought. Then like a week after valentines day me and alex broke up and nick started hanging around with us again but then nick kissed me and everything went awkward between us three because alex knew what happened and got really upset. Then I started liking nick and when I told him that he said he wanted to take me out so we went out but then alex got really pissed so we said we should stop seeing each other for a while till alex gets over it. While this was happening I was moving schools. There was this guy in my school who I shall call Gary. Anyway after I settled into school I became very close to Gary and we started talking more and more. I then started noticing how he'd flirt with me but I shrugged it off because Gary was known for being a bit of a player. Then one day he said he liked me and I told him what was going on between me, Nick and Alex and that I'd be lying if I said I wasn't attracted to him but my love life was already confusing enough, but he said to follow my heart and he'd fight for me. This made me fall for him slightly more. Then he was all sweet about how sorry he was for adding to my problems. I think I like them all equally what should I do? And by the way a foursome is out of the question! Any advice is appreciated!
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